Holly, time will tell, with SCG. let's see how the sporty event goes...... keep up posted with every development......
Sugarmoon, I can't wait to hear about how things with Socrates play out.......second date or not?
I met a guy online yesterday who is seemingly the whole package. Very clever, single (never been married/no kids but has
been in one LTR of 4 years, which ended several years ago), perfect-aged (3 years older than me), handsome, 6'4" (I'm neurotically into super-tall guys), total nerd-in-glasses with bad-ass self confidence.
Broad-shoulders, handsome, dark hair, and ....let's call the hottie 'Clark Kent' because he really resembles him.
He's a lawyer, high-profile litigator for large corporations, and has the confidence to prove it. Maybe just
bordering on boyish arrogance but ....so far let's see if it's too
much or just enough
to give him that air of incredibly sexy self-confidence.
I met him on facebook, we exchanged a zillion emails, he admitted he's been out on a couple of dates with this one girl but nothing serious/exclusive yet.......but I figured 'all's fair, he's not truly taken yet..' ......then exchanged phone numbers and texted/called the whole night. Lots of great phone conversations. I love his voice. Then today, we finally met.
we went out tonight and talked and talked and talked and the guy looked like cupid had just nailed him between the eyes. He told me over and over that my photos were beautiful but in real life, I am truly stunning and he could hardly tear his eyes off me. But more importantly, Clark Kent also
digs hotties with high IQ, and he kept repeating how he coudn't get over what a smart + sexy combo I happen to be.
Not to blow my own horn but he's kinda right. I am
a catch in the sexiness + cleverness combo department.
But so is he!!!
We sort of started making out right there at the table, at the restaurant, a little bit, after a couple of hours. And then we left and I insisted I'd just walk home and wish him a pleasant night. He hinted (ok, begged) that I come home with him. I told Clark Kent that I didn't want a 'one night stand' with him, ....and that the directions I could see things heading between us, there's not room for another woman in his life, in any way/shape/form. He actually emphatically
agreed, and said he'd talk to the girl and straighten things out, and take me to a super nice dinner tomorrow night, or whenever I am free the next time. He texted me and says he totally doesn't want just a one night stand with a woman like me, but instead fantasizes about building up a long standing thing....and is already talking about taking me with him on his trip to the US in 4-5 weeks (he is traveling to my hometown, to visit friends-of-the-family that live there, coincidentally! All my extended family happen to be in the same exact city. It *would* be pretty perfect to go there together!).
I know, I know, it seems too good to be true so it must be. But let's see! I'm totally due for a change in luck and something great
to happen in my dating life.
This could be it.
Maybe he's just a total sleaze and only trying to score but.... I wanna suspend my cynism and disbelief for a couple of days or even a couple of weeks and see how this pans out.