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I live in a very small town (800 people or so) and there is a local hang out. It has a bar, music, pool tables and is family oriented believe it or not (with outside play areas). It is hard to describe the place, but families gather and everyone knows everyone and the kids play and some people have a couple beers, others don't. Anyway, an old man there who is just one of the smartest and wise people I know (I love listening to his stories about the town) said something about some of the teenagers there.

These teenagers were raised at the bar. Gosh, I wish there was another name for it than bar, but maybe community center with beer is better. Anyway, he said every kid that has been raised there (spending weekends there) are good kids. Honestly, they are the most respectful, interesting and mature teens I have ever seen.

He said it was because they learned to not just socialize with kids but with adults too. He said they were that way because they grew up with little kids, bigger kids, adults, old people and knew how to interact with them all.

He said that was the key.

He never will know how much that made my closet future homeschooler smile. I completely agree. :
post #2 of 7
You're not talking about Toby's Feed Barn by any chance are you?

Anyhow, I think you (and he) are completely right.
post #3 of 7
That's really cool, and he's totally right.
post #4 of 7
That is so awesome and so true!! My children can socialize with any age person. With the exception of my eldest who attends PS. She falls into the peer pressure thing that irritates me to death.
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You're not talking about Toby's Feed Barn by any chance are you?

Anyhow, I think you (and he) are completely right.
No, but most really, really small towns have something like this. A meeting place if you will.

Awesome in my opinion, I always can't wait to meet my friend be it 13 year old girl to an 80 year old man. I think I learned how to socialize! I was always scared of old people, but they are a very much cool resource!

I know my kids learn so much hanging out with all ages. My son who is turning 4 wants people who are in their 40's, 70's, 14, 5, 1, and 3 year olds to come. Being with just kids your age isn't always a great resource (says the PS kid that just figured out that I can talk to all ages).
post #6 of 7
How 'bout calling it a neighbourhood pub? Kind of has a family feel to me, because I was born in Britain and pubs, especially in small villages, can have that kind of flavour.

That's a great story. I live in a very small town too, where adults and teens and children work and play together a lot. It really does produce great citizens.

Miranda
post #7 of 7
I agree. "Socialization" is best when it is done naturally....nonsegregated by ages like it is in a family scenario.
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