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Homeschool Spotlight - June 1 - tankgirl73

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Here I go!

What are your kids ages and names/pseudonyms?

David is 11, I call him "Flipper" on my blog because he's a gymnast and loves dolphins. And is hyperactive, always tumbling about...

Caileigh is 2-and-a-half. On my blog I call her "Pomme" because she's the apple of our eye.

Tell us a little about your family.

David is, as I said, hyperactive. Possibly full-on ADHD. Certainly sensory integration problems -- needs to constantly be in motion, touching things, fiddling, fidgeting, grabbing things, chewing on things, wiggling, I tell you it's enough to drive me mad. Possibly mildly asperger's? Just starting to consider that idea. He's bright and creative but has low self-esteem and is very negative about everything. He's the lazy type of perfectionist with no self-motivation whatsoever. It's a handful homeschooling him for sure, but I can only imagine how much worse off we'd all be if he were in school.

Caileigh is a little angel in contrast. She's keen and attentive and patient and cooperative and loves discovering and learning.

Hubby Brian is a computer geek who works for the city's IT department. He's David's stepfather, David's dad and I divorced when David was almost 4.

I'm a professional musician... trained as a concert pianist, also lots of experience with band as I also play the trombone. Used to teach lots of piano students, but I'm taking a break from that since we moved back home last year. Now I'm focussing on playing and just took a job conducting the city band (which I first joined when I was 12!).

How long have you been homeschooling? Is there a story behind it?

We've always homeschooled. I can't recall exactly what point I decided for sure that that's what we'd do. No particular story except for the usual dissatisfactions with public education and the desire for closer family ties. I'd decided long before we were aware of David's issues, so that wasn't a factor in 'starting', but it's certainly a factor in 'sticking with it'!

Does your homeschool have a name or a mission statement?

Nope.

What is your general homeschooling philosophy?

Eclectic. Do what works. Unschooling-inspired, Montessori-inspired, Charlotte Mason-inspired. Still searching for the perfect mix.

Do you use a curriculum?

For some things. With David I started out very curriculum-y and probably caused way more problems than I needed to, sigh... So we were unschooley for awhile, but have gradually been building in more structure as he's getting older and really does seem to thrive best with structure.

What he's using right now:
Math -- RightStart level E and Life of Fred Fractions
Science -- Noeo Biology II and Earth Logic
Grammar -- Daily Grams Grade 5
French -- L'art de lire
History -- History Odyssey, Ancients level 2
Handwriting -- A Reason for Handwriting, level F
Spelling -- Natural Speller

I think that's it as far as "official" curriculum right now... but we're also using a Reading Detective book, a Mind Benders book, a "Christian-values-based-on-Aesop's-fables" book (we're not "Christian homeschoolers" per se, but slant towards a liberal Christian worldview, DS enjoys it anyway)... Anything else that we do is self-developed or built out of the day or whatever.

Do you or your children have any special interests or hobbies that influence your homeschooling?

David wants to be a marine biologist, he's just crazy about whales and dolphins. He even got picked as the 'volunteer' during the dolphin show at Marineland last year:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2xBpOyddUE

Talk about a highlight of his life! He still talks about it. I try to show him how the things we do relate to stuff he needs to learn and develop in order to be a marine biologist (even if the connection is not immediately obvious).

He also wants to be a rock guitarist. It all started with Guitar Hero, of course, but we got him a real electric guitar and some books and he's doing amazingly well. It affects our homeschooling because he's constantly playing his guitar instead of doing what he SAID he was going to do. I do include some guitar practice as part of his "official" school stuff, though, and we're looking into getting some lessons for him.

He also is a competitive gymnast. Here's some videos of the Provincials from a couple months ago:
http://motherbynature.ca/2009/04/pro...nships-videos/

His first competition at that level and he walked away with lots of jewelry. He then competed at the Atlantics, where he got 5th place in the pommel. Not bad!

This affects our homeschooling positively because it's an outlet for his incessant motion.

Caileigh loves dance, but she's still so young it's not a big part of our lives yet. Probably start classes this fall, though. Her biggest interests right now are letters (you can see she's trying to figure out how words work, it's very cool) and numbers (she can count by rote to twenty, and count objects accurately up to 4, and identifies all the written digits EVERYWHERE SHE SEES THEM lol...) She also loves drawing, helping around the house, doing things herself... typical Montessori toddler things.

What is your typical daily routine? weekly routine?

Do you want the "typical" routine or the "intended" routine lol... Since David does gymnastics and also Tae Kwon Do (he has a junior black belt in karate, we switched to TKD when we moved because we couldn't find a karate school here we were happy with), he's out at activities pretty much every night of the week. We try to do the school stuff in the morning so that he's free for the afternoon, but he often stalls and fusses and it takes all day.

I've started using a Charlotte Mason inspired schedule, which works fairly well at keeping him on task. I've posted before about our struggles with this, and why just letting him unschool or set his own schedules etc doesn't work. Just recently we've come to a good agreement (again) and although he hasn't got everything done every single day, he's done it most days and we didn't have any big battles when he didn't.

Basically I've been planning a week at a time based on a long-term 'vision' of how much we'd like to get done, and slotting it into the days with short lessons and doable, enjoyable tasks. Recently modified the way I've been organizing it, more on that below.

Caileigh, we're being fairly Montessori with but only loosely so, in that we have lots of Montessori-type activities around for her but I don't schedule any "school time" for her. She takes them whenever she likes throughout the day.

How do you evaluate progress?

We actually do third-party standardized testing once a year. It started as part of the separation agreement with David's dad... he didn't trust me to homeschool when he wasn't there to watch things : but agreed to give it a try provided we did testing to confirm he was progressing.

David actually enjoys the testing, go figure... so we've continued even though his dad is now satisfied that things are fine. It also just helps ease my mind when after a year of struggle and feeling like we just wasted so much time and did we REALLY get anything useful done... he tests above his grade level.

We had been using the CAT-3 from Canadian Testing Centres from the beginning, but last year we also did the PASS test from Hewitt Homeschooling, which is actually designed for homeschoolers. We really liked it so we're doing it again this year.

Do you have any special methods/tips for planning? household organization? storage? record keeping?

I've just today started a new system that's sort of based on the workbox idea... or maybe it's more like the system that the workboxes were inspired BY lol... I've made a bunch of index cards, one for each subject, written in pen at the top along with which days of the week we'll do that subject (according to the weekly plan I'd worked out before).

Then each day I write the assignment in that subject in pencil and put it into a "to do" box. As he does them, he moves the card to the "done" box. So it isn't a separate box for each item with the books and everything, it's just a card describing it. I just don't have room for a whole workbox thing. I might work out some kind of thing like where you take the sticker for each thing and put it on the master to make a rainbow or happy faces or whatever, like with workboxes... or I might not bother lol...

So far (and it's only been a day -- and a half, since I've prepared tomorrow's cards now) I'm finding it easier to organize than my written-out weekly planner, since it's easier to adjust if he doesn't do something one day and needs to do it the next day. It's more flexible. I still have a rough weekly plan in my head.

And all the more detailed advance planning I had been doing was about organizing a history program (based on info and methods from some Charlotte Mason websites) but while that was okay, I wasn't really completely happy with what I came up with. So we're trying History Odyssey, which is exactly what I was trying to do by myself only someone else has done the hard work for me lol... and done it better!

All we do for storage is he's got a shelf in his room especially for his school-ey books, and a drawer for all his math manipulatives.

Hm, I guess I can also mention that Caileigh's room is organized a-la Montessori, with neat shelves of accessible activities and books, a set of drawers for her clothes she can access herself, a floor bed (though she only naps there, she still spends the night in our room), hooks she can reach for her jackets, bags, etc. I TOTALLY think every toddler needs a Montessori room! She is so confident and independent, loves putting things away, can get herself completely dressed, there's no clutter... (all the 'junky' toys are in a playroom downstairs). We're really, really, really happy with this arrangement.

Whew... thanks for making it all the way through this... if you have any questions please ask away!
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Do you have any tricks for working with your son? My ds has sensory issues and they make him ADHD-like, but it's just sensory. I have a lot of trouble with this!

Do you use a Montessori curriculum? I was thinking of getting New Child Montessori for fall for my 4 almost 5 yo. I haven't heard reviews of it but it has tons of great book ideas and practical stuff that is calling to me even though I'm a waldorfy unschooler.
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Wow David is flexible! What a great way for him to take advantage of his high energy level. I'll show my DS that video later, he'll love it. I also enjoyed seeing the Marineland one. We've been to the Marineland in France a couple of times and they don't ask for any volunteers during the shows! I'm guessing it's all a bit more interactive over there than over here (here it's more like "Don't touch anything")!
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Originally Posted by kittywitty View Post
Do you have any tricks for working with your son? My ds has sensory issues and they make him ADHD-like, but it's just sensory. I have a lot of trouble with this!
Tricks? Why, have you got some for me too? I could use some more tricks...

We've got things like a weighted blanket and weighted lap pad... hm, I need to remember to pull that out more often. Also letting him run around every so often. Giving him something 'safe' to chew on -- we used 'chewelry' for awhile but it was getting gross. Right now he's popping his knuckles ALL.THE.TIME and it's driving me batty, and I have NO idea how to stop that other than yelling at him (which hasn't worked so far...)

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Do you use a Montessori curriculum? I was thinking of getting New Child Montessori for fall for my 4 almost 5 yo. I haven't heard reviews of it but it has tons of great book ideas and practical stuff that is calling to me even though I'm a waldorfy unschooler.
No particular curriculum, no. Quite a few "official" Montessori items, like metal insets and knobbed cylinders and number rods, other things which are just similar in concept. I have Hainstock's book on Montessori in the home, and I've read Dr Montessori's Secret of Childhood. The rest I've just got from websites... ideas and methods and philosophies.

I did subscribe to uh... I think it's called Montessori For the Earth for a session, I found it money well spent since it gave DETAILED information on age-appropriate activities, tons of articles and advice, etc. I don't think it's anything you can't find elsewhere for free, but it was all together in one place, easily accessible, so a good investment for a newbie IMO.
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Blog for Today:

Had a mostly good day. David actually got ALL HIS WORK DONE : and without fussing and fighting. He was still pretty slow about it, lots of heel-dragging in the morning, but once he was into it after lunchtime, he really knuckled in and got it all done quite quickly.

Probably the most interesting thing we did today was the first lesson from Earth Logic - building a model of the earth's layers out of plasticine. The crust is soooooooooo thin you've got to squish it SUPER flat to fit over the ball, so we used my pasta machine. When you've assembled the layers, you cut through the middle to get a cross-section.

The whole time we were doing it, he was cooperative and doing the stuff but I wouldn't say his heart was REALLY in it. As soon as he opened up that cross-section though... "Cooooooooooooooooool!"

Later tonight, at bedtime, he showed it to hubby, and was even able to recall the names of all the layers and what they're made of.

He doesn't have gymnastics this week because his coach is away with the older boys to the Nationals... so we had a night off. He had a movie theatre gift card from his birthday, so he and I took off on our own and went to see Up in 3D. Very cool! I loved the moral of it... Paradise isn't a specific place you MUST be in order to be happy. Adventure and excitement doesn't have to mean travel and danger etc. Your life is your adventure, and Paradise is living your life with the people you love. I was also surprised at how heart-wrenching it was (I'm still tearing up about it, just thinking about it) in many spots. Also very funny, and not in the crazy stupid manic way that most kids' movies are today...

And the 3D was just too much fun... it's my first 3D movie and honestly, I think this is the future of the art form! It's not just about flashy GOTCHA tricks - I heard another mom there complaining that it wasn't worth the extra $3 each because there really wasn't all that much to the 3D in this one... but I disagree. Then it's just a gimmick. What it did was make the experience more immersive and more 'real'. Distances were far. Cliffs were a loooooooooong way down. It's like the difference between classical 2D animation and modern 3D CGI... now making that VISUALLY 3D as well is just the logical next step.

David just thought it was very funny, he liked the hyper dogs. Heh.
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We've been to the Marineland in France a couple of times and they don't ask for any volunteers during the shows! I'm guessing it's all a bit more interactive over there than over here (here it's more like "Don't touch anything")!
Interesting. Marineland in Canada has some don't-touch areas but on the whole it's designed to be VERY interactive. There's even a pet-and-feed-the-belugas activity. THAT is way cool.
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We can't wait to see Up! Sounds like you guys had a great day. I love the earth layers model. We've always intended to do that, I should look it back up and do it!

Your son reminds me a lot of my cousin, also a gymnast. We were close in age and I still remember in high school when he had a broken leg. He would do back flips with his crutches! I still don't get the physics behind that, but he could do it. (By the way he did not break his leg in competitive gymnastics, car leaving driveway quickly while he was biking on the sidewalk - ouch!) Oh, and by the way, my cousin was the super active guy who was always in trouble at school. However, now he is a successful computer business owner, happily married with two great girls. He had to spend a couple years after high school to de-school but once his innate curiousity kicked back in he was full speed ahead. He went to college to get what he needed and then followed his interests. How great that your active boy doesn't have to endure the torture of school. Not that all school is torture, but for active kids it can be!
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Today David did all his work again!

It wasn't looking so great last night... See, Wednesdays there's less work assigned, because kids in our school system get half days Wednesdays. So I decided long ago to give him lighter loads on Wednesdays too, so it's easier for him to be finished by noon so he can play with his friends.

Honestly, he COULD finish a regular day's work well before noon if he TRIED, but ya know... sigh...

So we're still in the first few days of this index cards system. At bedtime, he saw the cards readied for tomorrow. "That's not LESS work, that's MORE work than today!!" Whine, whine, not listening to reason, fret, fume. Sigh. It IS actually much less work, it's like 5 fewer tasks and mostly the quick and easy ones to boot.

So this morning he was still whining, but eventually he did a couple things. Then he came running up to me saying "hey, I think I'll get my work done today after all! I've just done [this that and the other thing, can't recall which], I can do grammar and cursive in the car [on our way to errands around lunchtime] and we'll do the math when we get home! That's all!"

Hoorah! And he was as good as his word.

In math today, he figured out how to find the area of a right triangle. Yes, HE figured it out... after some leading questions, of course. That's what we like about RS math. It started today with a couple easy ones, where you could count the sq cm blocks the triangle covered on the grid, easily matching up half-blocks with each other. Then they got harder, so you couldn't just do it by counting them. Then we looked at the rectangle grids they were on, noticed the relationship between the triangle and the rectangle, and he said "OHH!!!! I know how to do the rest of them now!!" And indeed, he did. Wheee!!

I've spent some time today digging around the Bravewriter site some more. I love so much of what they're doing, but it is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO expensive. $175 for an online course? Yowch. $80 for a digital download? Eeeps. Yeah, it's 250-or-so pages, but still... $80???
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mom2ponygirl... thanks for the reassurance about your cousin who turned out all right. I wonder every day about this kid... sigh...
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Cool about the math, I love it when I get to see the lightbulb turn on!

I've had the same response to Bravewriter. It looks and sounds awesome, but I keep wincing at the price. She needs some feedback though, from someone other than me.

Dd really took off writing by participating in the NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) in November each year. http://ywp.nanowrimo.org/ It helps with quantity rather than quality. You set a word count goal, they send you daily silly writing prompts to help you over writer's block. You don't stop to check spelling or grammar or even to see if things make sense. You just write (or in dd's case type). You enter your word count and keep an eye on your goal for the month. There is a forum for kids to help each other out and root each other on. Dd really got into typing stories on her own after doing this. Now, she doesn't generally finish them or edit them, but we now have dozens (if not hundreds) of 5,000+ word stories on the computer. Now that she no longer minds putting out volume, we've been able to do some assigned writing and editing without the painful groans. LOL At least as long as she is not required to - *gasp* write it out on paper by hand!

Just a thought - if it gets his interest it might help....
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Montessori

I also used Montessori techniques with my oldest and now with my nearly two year old...
I just used the Hainstock books...(there's some old fashioned things in there...like polishing silverware and shoes...that i just skipped..but the best part is the homemade tools sections. We made our own number rods and number sorting box, sandpaper letters and textures, weight and scent blocks/bottles, textured fabric pieces etc.)
I was all about it when Micah was little and have gotten rid of some stuff and need to make more for River.

The best part about Montessori to me is not the "tools" used but the mentality that the teacher/parent has towards the child..just observe and follow the child's lead, set up the environment for success...not unlike unschooling in a lot of ways.

Here's a good site for reading: montessori homeschooling
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