Crunchy mama, I have no idea how to paint furniture because everytime I do, it turns out... not good lol I believe though, to get the look you are going for, you would have to paint it twice -- once in the color you want showing through, then once with the top color -- dry between coats of course, then lightly sand the top coat in places until the other coat shows through? Or, an alternative, is to paint the first coat, let it dry, then water down the top coat of paint so it is not offering full coverage and some shows through, kwim?
As for hardware, I find the best option is to replace. It is often extremely cheap to do (most times under $5) because at a hardware store you can get just what you need per piece. Otherwise, I don't know how to paint hardware -- spray paint maybe?
Okay, I took pics of the living/'family' room

There are plenty of notes lol
Here is the chair I covered (there were two, I did both)
living/dining room -- we do have a dining room but I have the table out here by the patio door for natual light, as we do *a lot* at this table - meals, arts/crafts/homeschooling
Another angle
This is a thrift store chair, my royal blue velvet
half-chaise, I got about 5 years ago, it is across from the big beige chair, diagonally in the sitting/dining room
family room screaming for art over the couch lol
Now
this is decluttering!
Enjoy

I will post the bedrooms (and all the secondhand "cheap" stuff in there lol) in a day or two when they are presentable enough

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