Thank you DH!AFM,
I am so happy to have DH. I too had some really bad prior experiences, so I'm so privileged to have DH. He cooks (loves to grill), cleans, loves, takes care of the kids (even going above and beyond and actually entertains them), still takes me out on Thursdays and Saturdays. Is driving to Florida with me to pick up my 3yo dd. He regularly brings me flowers, still opens the car door (okay, so a little less often). Puts down the toilet seat Encourages me. Gets me what I need or want when I ask. Best of all, he loves me and our kids, and it shows. I hope we get to share this bean!