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I am so sorry BelovedK. It is heartbreaking.

Geargirl, after my chemical ... a very faint, questionable but there, bfp for 4-5 days and then my period started. Once the cycle started it was quite normal. I hope yours is to so you can continue trying.
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Congrats SunRise!!!

I wanted to share my sad news I went in for an ultrasound, and found that I don't have a viable pregnancy


iguess I am back here.
Oh Beloved... I'm so very sorry. :
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BelovedK I am so so sorry
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BelovedK, I am so very sorry. That's what happened to me with my second m/c. I thought everything was fine until i went in fo rmy first u/s. My first was a blighted ovum and my body started releasing it at 7 weeks. So i was pretty shocked when i went in at 10 weeks and saw the baby had stopped developing at 6 w.
Unfortunately, it does happen more often at our age as many of us can attest to.
It is a very good sign that you got PG and I hope that when you are ready you conceive again very quickly.

SunRise, I am so very happy for you! What wonderful news. I just knew your sticky baby was coming!

Jennifer, welcome to the thread. I hope your next BFp is the sticky one!

Me: 39w5d. Both my older kids had been born by this point in the PG. Stayed home from work today thinking I was in labour. Midwife came and checked me this morning but although my cervix was soft and stretchy, it was only a fingertip dilated. So I guess my weeks+ worth of bead menstrual type cramping was just a tease. it was a lot worse over night but too no avail apparently.
And they tapered off over the day.
Thinking about going to work tomorrow, which is pissing DH off.
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to you BelovedK. I had such hopes for you. So sorry for your loss.
Congrats, Sunrise, sending goodvibes.
VM, so sorry to hear about your neighbor's son. That must be so hard for all of you.
Welcome, Jennifer, from another Jennifer
BuzzerBeater, I hope your mammogram issue resolves and that you are fine. I have a friend who had just some weird stuff in one of her milk glands, which they removed, and it was benign. I did IVF, and am glad I did because now I'm pregnant!
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SunRise, I am so happy for you! Yay for that squirmy little one. :

BelovedK I am so sorry. Similar thing happened to me 2.5 years ago. It was absolutely heartbreaking. Be so dear to yourself and listen to your intuition about how to grieve and heal.

Welcome GearGirl!! Very sorry about your losses. I hope your sticky bean comes soon.

AFM, another high temp today so I am in my 2WW, pretty sure I'm 2dpo.
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Thank you everyone for sending the good energy and kind words. I am holding out for now. I have to go to work today and hope I can hold it together when talking to people. I have to be 'up' when dealing with the public, I don't know if I can. I keep bursting into tears at odd times. I am trying to keep myself busy though. I can't get the image of that u/s out of my mind The tech was so clinical, and not warm at all. My NP was though and she gave me a tissue and a hug

veganmama, I am thinking about you. I went 2 weeks past the time I was expecting DD, and it was excruciating. I was so uncomfortable, and ready to meet her (though I didn't know her sex) I hope it happens soon, and goes smoothly.

WM, I hope you caught that egg

SunRise, I am so happy for you :
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BelovedK, it is indeed tough when you can't take any time off work. I didn't either and I also deal with the public. Somehow people are not that confident when their investment professional cries in front of them!

We are all here for you chica. Come and vent and rage and cry when you need to.
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Thanks vm,

I am going it tonight for a D&C, they wanted to get me in right away (not sure why) I know I should let it happen naturally, but I just can't wait

I did call my clients tomorrow and told them I may not come it. If I feel good, I'll work though. Emotionally, I help it together for the most part today.
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Thanks vm,

I am going it tonight for a D&C, they wanted to get me in right away (not sure why) I know I should let it happen naturally, but I just can't wait

I did call my clients tomorrow and told them I may not come it. If I feel good, I'll work though. Emotionally, I help it together for the most part today.
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[QUOTE=WaturMama;14124423]BuzzerBeater, I'm sending lots of good thoughts. Let us know what happens with your biopsy. Also good wishes with the IVF, you are so very welcome here and certainly not the only one going that route.

I walked with my dogs after reading your post and was thinking about it. Here are some thoughts I have. If they resonate and they are useful great, if not leave them be: it sounds like you've made a decision that part of you (maybe head and heart?) is on board with, but another part of you (maybe spirit?) isn't. It seems like it would make this path to mothering sweeter if you brought it all together. I imagine you praying, or journaling, or talking to yourself in the mirror, or sitting quietly whatever helps you connect deeply, taking a look at the areas of discomfort and really getting on board with what you're doing, maybe in a tender way. It touches my heart that you want this child so much you are willing to step deeply into a world that is uncomfortable for you. It is easy to miss the humans in their white coats (been there myself)--maybe look in their eyes, so you really see them. I hope some of that helps.


Thanks WaturMama, that is sweet, and insightful. I am taking your advice to heart. It's easy to focus on the physical process and neglect the rest, when that is where you need to be okay too... I didn't know til I met DH what it could be like to want a child... so much. And to want this for him, I know he will be a kind and generous dad.

So, got my biopys results- it's benign yay just some jargon about cellular crap that I won't pay any attention to after all this is done and I can't be blackmailed into a mammogram again. I do have a lovely titanium clip in my boob as a reminder tho.

BelovedK I'm sorry for your loss... I'm heading into the mountains today to meditate and see the views... I'll be thinking of you.
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Buzzer Beater, YAY for the happy results!! What a relief Thanks for the well wishes Have a good time today. I wish I could spend some time out in nature, perhaps next weekend I will head to the mountains for a hike
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I'm still waiting for my cycle to come back after this chemical, hpt still showing a very, very, very faint line as of yesterday so I guess it hasn't gone down enough to start things going. I really hope that isn't an indication that there is going to be a bigger problem like an ectopic or something. In my past two chemicals I had it turn to negative right away and then started af right away as well. AF was due 6 days ago.

I'm still trying to catch up on this thread since I'm new here, I had my 40th b-day two weeks ago! So congrats to those with good news, and for the rest of us, our time is coming!
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So happy to hear about the good biopsy results!

geargirl and belovedK, I know how frustrating it is waiting for your body to get back to normal. It will happen but it seems to take forever at the time!

Me: 40w today. Grumpy.
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(((hug))) VM
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congrats on the clear biopsy news, buzzerbeater!
to all!
VM, my ds was born 40wks1day, maybe yours will be too. Have you and your dh been DTD and all the other good stuff? If your youngest still nurses, have you been letting him nurse a lot?
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Thanks for the hugs ladies.

Pookietooth, my cervix is already soft and stretchy according to my midwife so I don't think DTD will help. We did it on Friday. DH is annoying me too much now. I think anything might annoy me at this point.
Yes, DS is still nursing. But he is at his grasndparents overnight tonight.
We have also tried nipple stimulation. Which annoyed me so much I pretty much wanted to kill DH.

On the one hand I feel like he will come when he is ready. On the other, I can't believe I have actually made it to my due date. DD and DS were 2 and 5 days early.
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Veganmama, what an exciting time, I can't wait to hear about the baby!
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VM: :
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Oh, my! So much going on since I was here last. VM, I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor's son. How sad.

We're all waiting with baited breath! I hope that your labor, when it comes, will be swift and relatively painless. Can't wait to hear the news of your new babe entering this world.

Beloved K, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Many hugs for you.

Sunrise, I am so glad that your bean is a sticky one! You go, girl!
Buzzbeater, thank goodness your biopsy was negative. What a relief! Please keep us posted re: your IVF journey.

Geargirl...welcome to our thread!
Laurie...so good to hear from you again. I hope you are well.

To everyone else, many well wishes and loads of baby dust!
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