Beco--what am I doing wrong?

[LemonPie]

I'm currently trying out a Beco and an Ergo. I like the Beco better in every way, except that I feel a lot of weight on my shoulders. Is there something I can do to remedy this? I have very narrow shoulders and I'm wondering if that has something to do with it.

My baby is 8 months old and approximately 18-19 lbs.

[CindyCindy]

Try loosening the straps and putting more weight on the waist belt. That helped me out when I was having back aches. Maybe someone else has another suggestion. . .