Welcome, sort of. I really wish you weren't here, just off having a lovely problem-free pregnancy. But since that's not in the cards, I'm glad you're here.
Well, the only things I learned so far is to take it one day at a time and to celebrate each week.
Saturday is my "promotion" day so every saturday I announce to dh "I'm X weeks now!" and I feel really good about that, I congratulate myself on keeping baby in a little bit longer.
The one day at a time thing is harder, but I find I can't plan like I want to so I need to chill. I hate it but it's what has to happen right now.
Oh, one last thing that helps me is having a goal date. I asked my mw when would be the soonest I can have a homebirth and she said November 29, just 7 weeks. I really like having a goal to work towards...even if my "work" is doing nothing at all