MarineWife, I sent that to my DH. He's been talking to me about having a hard time not blaming others for the way he feels.
I'm better at it. I don't blame others for my feelings but I have a hard time sometimes distinguishing, practically speaking, between responsibility and blame. Maybe it's just the feeling behind it. If I take responsibility for something, I accept my part but don't feel bad about it. However, if I blame myself for something, I feel quilty.
As soon as I can, I'll post a bit about why I need this thread. You all will find that I double post a lot and am long winded. Sorry about that.