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post #741 of 1979
Q. Is my DH capable of working to provide for the family in the near future, or do I need to be the primary one to do that?

thanks in advance!
post #742 of 1979
I am considering seeing a doctor, initials MT, for a chronic health problem.

He's very expensive, and I want to know if he can actually help me, or if I'll be wasting my money. I am far too emotionally invested to read this situation for myself.

Anybody get a vibe?
post #743 of 1979
Any psychics who connect with animals around? My cat Cassie is "very sick" and the vet says we need to think about putting her down if she doesn't get better.

We brought her home for home care and she's responded a little. She ate right away, so we haven't needed to force feed her yet. She's also had some water and has used her litter box.

But she's really not doing well otherwise. She's hiding and you can tell she's just not right.

I just need to know if I keep fighting or do I let go? I will fight as long as we need to, but I don't want to prolong her suffering. I don't know how to deal right now. This has all happened too quickly.

I know it's a difficult question and understand if no one wants to answer.
post #744 of 1979
Tomorrow I start a job as a server in my fathers restaurant and I'm wondering if I'll make good tips and have a good day or if I'll be struggling and stressed and not make make much money... I just don't know what to expect.
post #745 of 1979
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Originally Posted by maryteresa View Post
full time or part time?
labor and delivery, NICU, or something else?
or do nothing?
NICU

3/4ths time
post #746 of 1979
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Originally Posted by MysteryMama View Post
Tomorrow I start a job as a server in my fathers restaurant and I'm wondering if I'll make good tips and have a good day or if I'll be struggling and stressed and not make make much money... I just don't know what to expect.

I see you having a fabulous day! I see you dressed professionally, and calm/organized. I see you with a big smile on your face, and the customers loving you! I see you touching them gently on the arms, calling them "honey," and marveling at the huge tips they leave you!!
post #747 of 1979
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Originally Posted by A&A View Post
I see you having a fabulous day! I see you dressed professionally, and calm/organized. I see you with a big smile on your face, and the customers loving you! I see you touching them gently on the arms, calling them "honey," and marveling at the huge tips they leave you!!
Woo Hoo! Thanks. Just what I needed to hear.
post #748 of 1979
If we take the "plunge" and move back home to the island, will we be able to find work?
Can I wait until the spring and the end of my maternity leave to apply for jobs, or do I need to take an opportunity if it comes up sooner?
Will my husband find work there or need to commute back to the city long-term?
post #749 of 1979
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Originally Posted by unimatrix0 View Post
Any psychics who connect with animals around? My cat Cassie is "very sick" and the vet says we need to think about putting her down if she doesn't get better.

We brought her home for home care and she's responded a little. She ate right away, so we haven't needed to force feed her yet. She's also had some water and has used her litter box.

But she's really not doing well otherwise. She's hiding and you can tell she's just not right.

I just need to know if I keep fighting or do I let go? I will fight as long as we need to, but I don't want to prolong her suffering. I don't know how to deal right now. This has all happened too quickly.

I know it's a difficult question and understand if no one wants to answer.
I think she wants to be home with you, but may need to go off on her own to deal with this (I'm thinking to die, but I hate to say that cause I really hope I'm wrong). I don't think that you need to do anything but love her and give her her space and freedome to go in the way she wants. She does want closure. She wants to say goodbye and give you the chance to say goodbye and that you are okay with her leaving if her time here is up. If you can hold her and pet her...if you are able...if not just send her the thoughts by looking at her and being nearby...but just tell her, you've been an amazing friend and protector of our home. But there are times in life that we all need to move on and I understand if it is your time to do that. We will be okay...and whatever else you need to let her know. She's really sweet but fiercely independent. If it DOES come to extreme suffering (I dont think it will, but can't be 100% on this) she will let YOU know that she needs your help. For now, just feed, water and love her and give her the best of everything that she loves and you have to offer. Prepare the family.

(((hugs)))
post #750 of 1979
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Originally Posted by unimatrix0 View Post
Any psychics who connect with animals around? My cat Cassie is "very sick" and the vet says we need to think about putting her down if she doesn't get better.

We brought her home for home care and she's responded a little. She ate right away, so we haven't needed to force feed her yet. She's also had some water and has used her litter box.

But she's really not doing well otherwise. She's hiding and you can tell she's just not right.

I just need to know if I keep fighting or do I let go? I will fight as long as we need to, but I don't want to prolong her suffering. I don't know how to deal right now. This has all happened too quickly.

I know it's a difficult question and understand if no one wants to answer.
I think she is ready to go. I think when you are ready to let her go, you should do so.

s to you and your family. I know how hard this is.
post #751 of 1979
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I have an oppurtunity with my family to go to a friends wedding. Should we go?

Should we stay where we are or should we move? Will we have a choice?
post #752 of 1979
Thank you so much jul511riv and Apple Girl. I know it's a difficult question to answer. I've been preparing and making arrangements if the worst happens soon.

Just one more question for me though. I just weaned off of zoloft (I'm still going through withdrawl symptoms) and was on it for over a year for ppd. I didn't anticipate so much happening during this time. I'm having trouble dealing and I need to be here for my kids. I'm really proud of myself for taking the steps to get off of them, since I was getting some side effects from them. But now I'm wondering if I should go back on for the sake of my kids (and for my sake too).
post #753 of 1979
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Originally Posted by neverdoingitagain View Post
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I have an oppurtunity with my family to go to a friends wedding. Should we go?

Should we stay where we are or should we move? Will we have a choice?
Go to the wedding, you'll have a blast!

I'm getting mixed vibes on the move... you'll have a choice, but it will be a difficult one... and I feel like you will be forced to make it quickly. Moving will be an adventure, and I think you'll be happy, but you would also be ok staying where you are.
post #754 of 1979
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Originally Posted by unimatrix0 View Post
Thank you so much jul511riv and Apple Girl. I know it's a difficult question to answer. I've been preparing and making arrangements if the worst happens soon.

Just one more question for me though. I just weaned off of zoloft (I'm still going through withdrawl symptoms) and was on it for over a year for ppd. I didn't anticipate so much happening during this time. I'm having trouble dealing and I need to be here for my kids. I'm really proud of myself for taking the steps to get off of them, since I was getting some side effects from them. But now I'm wondering if I should go back on for the sake of my kids (and for my sake too).
I think in your case, you made the right decision to wean off the Zoloft. The next few months will be rough, but you will get through it, and be ok in the end. Make sure to eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables, drink a lot of water, and exercise as much as possible, even if it just means taking long walks or running after your kids in the park. When the dark cloud passes it will be ok, I promise.
post #755 of 1979
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Originally Posted by RubySlippers View Post
So, I asked last month if I was pregnant, and the answer given was no, but soon. So I'm here to ask again, just for fun, am I pg this time? If not how soon? Oh, and also, boy or girl, if and when I do get pg!

I'll be testing (again) tomorrow after some "inconclusive" results today.
I think it will be this month or next. Before the end of the summer.
post #756 of 1979
Is my dh cheating? If not, what the heck could be going on with him?

Also, is he manipulating me into not going in the direction I am supposed to be going in life? After a few little slips he has made, I am beginning to feel that this may be happening without me even realizing it.

Is a thesis going to be too much for me to accomplish before graduation?
post #757 of 1979
So, I lost my bean is it a good idea to try again? will I ever feel better?
post #758 of 1979
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Originally Posted by Summertime Mommy View Post
Is my dh cheating? If not, what the heck could be going on with him?

Also, is he manipulating me into not going in the direction I am supposed to be going in life? After a few little slips he has made, I am beginning to feel that this may be happening without me even realizing it.

Is a thesis going to be too much for me to accomplish before graduation?
1. I see something perhaps physical that is causing a drop in libido. I don't see cheating, though.

2. I don't think he is manipulating you on purpose, but you've let him "steer the boat" for too long, if that makes sense.
post #759 of 1979
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Originally Posted by BelovedK View Post
So, I lost my bean is it a good idea to try again? will I ever feel better?



I think yes, and yes.

As I mentioned to another poster, you may want to look into/ ask your doctor about/google "low dose aspirin therapy" for both trying to conceive and preventing miscarriage.
post #760 of 1979
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Originally Posted by MysteryMama View Post
Tomorrow I start a job as a server in my fathers restaurant and I'm wondering if I'll make good tips and have a good day or if I'll be struggling and stressed and not make make much money... I just don't know what to expect.
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Originally Posted by A&A View Post
I see you having a fabulous day! I see you dressed professionally, and calm/organized. I see you with a big smile on your face, and the customers loving you! I see you touching them gently on the arms, calling them "honey," and marveling at the huge tips they leave you!!
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Originally Posted by MysteryMama View Post
Woo Hoo! Thanks. Just what I needed to hear.
How did your day go?
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