There's a plethora of info about the whole donor process & all the ins/outs of being a choice mom here
and an excel spreadsheet of sperm banks that I can email you if you pm me. Depending on how you want to go... there are other alternatives for getting sperm as well, there's a worldwide free sperm donor yahoo group as well as a paid site that's somewhat like match.com for sperm donors and recipients where the sperm is free...
PS please don't let what others think about this choice in your life affect you. I'm not pg yet, but so far most people are totally cool w/my decision, and I live in a small very conservative town. I think part of the reason that folks take it so well, besides the fact that the people I know are cool
is that I'm confident in the choice and just matter of fact about the whole thing. There's no room for people's negativity, doubts or worries to enter in
Also loved reading Knock Yourself Up by Louise Sloan and Mikki Morrissette's book Choosing Single Motherhood. Of course you're already a single mom, but making the choice consciously from the very beginning has a few different things to think about...
NewbianMama-so glad you got outside yesterday even if it wasn't necessarily the kind of being productive you were hoping for hehe
I cracked up when you mentioned me and dream home in the same sentence.... I wouldn't exactly call this place my dream home, but when the Universe drops a nearly free house in your lap, you say, "YES! I'll take it!!" and make the best of it