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Find someone you know who is old and have them tell you about babies and pertussis. We are selectively vax, but this is one we did.
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When my older son was an infant, i really wavered on the pertussis vaccine...the doctor practically guaranteed me that he would die from the disease if i didnt get the shots...it took nearly *twelve years* for him to get it! So, he got it, then the baby got it (baby had had the two month vaxes due to being a foster child and me feeling bullied into it, but he DID have what is apparently considered "normal" reactions: crying, personality changes, etc)...my completely unvaxed almost-12 yr old was pretty sick for a week or two, coughed to the point of throwing up maybe once or twice and then was fine. The baby did have a pretty severe cough, for maybe a week it would wake him up or cause some distress, but---while he did cough on and off for a couple of months--was fine and came through it well. My older sister, completely vaxed as a child, was *miserable* and very sick throughout the duration of her illness. My children and sister were in daily contact with me, my mother, and other family members and none of us "caught" pertussis.
A couple of months after that, i was at an unschooling conference and talked to an MDC mom with a VERY young baby, she said all her kids got pertussis recently too---i suspect it was going around last summer---and again, her kids were FINE. Even her small infant.
Given my experience with two of my kids, i would FAR FAR prefer the KNOWN reactions to the disease itself than take the risk of vaxing for it, considering that my two month old baby had just started to smile and babble when we walked into the doctors office, and after receiving the shot, stopped all of that for well over a week, total personality change (thank goodness he recovered but who is to say that some of his personality quirks/oversensitivities can't be traced to that vax? ) I had to vax my next foster child, and she didnt have any reactions, but she was also much older (one yr old) and i believe able to tolerate the vax better than a tiny two month old.
I think there is alot of hysteria surrounding pertussis in particular. When i posted for advice at MDC, one poster basically said i was risking my child by not immediately taking him to the doctor or hospital. But in talking to moms whose children actually have had pertussis their conclusions seem to match mine, that for MOST children MOST of the time, the disease just isnt *that* big of a deal.








Cuz pertussis is life threatening dontcha know. 

