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Originally posted by Charles Baudelaire ***I agree, she's learning, Arthead....but my problem is WHAT she is learning. I think children learn that it's acceptable to be unkind and rude to others, like when Junie chases down her "boyfriend" on the playground and sits on him, screaming in his face. If she were a minor character or a character whose actions were frowned-on, that would be different. Instead, she "gets away," as it were, with her rudeness, incivility, and unbelievable self-absorption.
***I think ultimately, she's stuffing junky ideas, language, and attitudes in her brain. Just my opinion, though -- I know it's certainly colored by dealing with 180 kids a year who think i'ts okay to be rude...and as a parent, I wonder where they got their attitudes from. I think JBJ isn't the only source, of course -- that's like saying McDonald's is the only reason an overweight child is overweight -- but it's one source that's easy to cut off. |
mmm... I have to clarify that we're on exactly the same page as far as the constitute of the Junie series. It's definitely NOT okay to behave like Junie, believe me, that girl is not an idol, just an example with whom my niece DOES relate & also, thankfully, find problems. I did have MAJOR reservations from paragraph 1, but it was a gift from gramma, again, respect had to be given to gramma's gift & choices since she, too, is an educator.
In a schoolyard situation - actually a lot of normal streetkid situations, I see 10 year-olds smoking cigs, hear 12 yr olds talking like I've NEVER (in my 30 years) been comfortable talking, ETC... & at first call, chalked it up to media, books included. A lot of it IS due to the loose-tongued media that any six year old can grab ahold of on any given day. But, then I realize that this world is what it is TODAY. & we must respond accordingly, which does not include guarding, for the most part. My niece attends public school near Chicago. I'm certain that she is exposed to much larger & waaaaaay more vulgar attitudes & wrongdoings than she sees within a Junie B Jones episode, KWIM?
My initial response to those books was one of disrespect for the author... "how could she add to this dissarray of healthy kids", ETC... but now, thanks to your post & more thought on my own part... I can see it as a place that my neice can relate her very REAL circumstances (attitudinal & otherwise) WITH me & figure out how she could/should react within that given circumstance, all without my having to "crash" her playground.
I love what you believe in, Charles, I really wish every kid had the chance to be so guarded from the ugly public attitudes & misgivings, to make better students... but my niece doesn't have that option. So, books like these can let us, together, figure out that a snotty attitude is NOT cool & acting out how Junie does won't get her very far in this life... unless she finds a way to divert her SPUNKINESS (ugh, how us artistic types must suffer thru the deemed social graces!!!

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I do, totally, agree with you on several levels, I hear about my mother's obnoxious kids at times & just want to throttle the media. Guess thats why we don't run TV thru our own television(only useful tapes, documentaries, something that will enhance us as people, etc.). Without supervision, kids are free property of the media, for better or for worse.
Hopefully for you, as an educator, and for all kids' health, the media will chill with it's pre-teen & teen HUGE attitudes in the near future.