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post #1 of 11
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From the introductions I saw that I think quite a few of us will have a pretty big age gap between our youngest and oldest ... my DD will be 6 1/2 when this babe is born!

I'm really looking forward to her totally understanding what it means to have a baby in the belly (she already knows how babies are made) - to experience that miracle. And she'll be a great helper. I kind of like the idea that it will be like having two only children - this baby will get tons of attention while she's at school, etc.

What do you think about a big gap? Are you worried? What about you and your siblings - are you close to a much older or younger bro or sis? Do you already have a big age gap in your kids? How has it worked out?

I'm an only child so it's all new to me!
post #2 of 11
Here! My oldest will be 6 1/2 and my youngest a little over 5 when this new baby arrives and I've been thinking a LOT about the same things. This is a completely different and new experience for me--there was only 15 months between my first two, so this is a huge, HUGE age gap to me. I was just telling my MIL the same thing this past weekend--that while the girls are in school I'll be able to have a little one-on-one time with the baby, which I had with both C&E too, since C came first, and then she was still taking 2-3 naps a day when E arrived.

As far as the gap goes--I have three siblings; my brother C is four years younger than me, my brother B is 10 years younger, and there's 12 years between me and my youngest sibling, my sister E. The brother 10 years younger I'm not incredibly close to, but the youngest sibling and the oldest one, 12 years and 4 years younger than me, I'm extremely close with.
post #3 of 11
Me!

I have a 14yo, and a 9yo, they will be 15 and 10 when the new baby is born. I am essentially starting all over and it does make me a bit nervous.

I had a brother who was 2 years younger, so I can't relate with the huge age gap. I am going to wait to tell them until I am a bit further along.
post #4 of 11
My oldest will be just about or already 8 (March birthday), the middle daughter will be 6 or just about (haha.. ANOTHER March birthday), and the youngest will be 4.25.

Not the HUGEST age gap, but with my first two nearly exactly two years apart and the second and third being 21 months apart, it's weird...
post #5 of 11
I have a 10yo son and by the time this babe is born, he will be almost 11! I am worried in a way about the age gap for them but, for myself, I am thinking this is a good thing. This way I will be able to do all the things with this child as I did with DS when he was young. I loved all my one on one time with him and I am looking forward to that again. My biggest thing is that DS has been an only child for so long, I am hoping that he doesn't feel left out or anything. I am going to try to involve him as much as I can in the whole process. He is already very happy he is going to be a big brother and I am sure he is going to be great at it. I also think he will be very helpful to me.
post #6 of 11
I have a 19, 18, 12, 11, 8, 6, 4, 3, and 11 mo....
post #7 of 11
This baby (if I'm definitely pregnant) will be due 2 days before my oldest son's 10th birthday, so a big age gap. My first 2 kids are 23 months apart, and my second 2 will also be 23 months apart, which I think is pretty neat. I love having near-agemates so they can relate to each other and play together, but sharing the experience of pregnancy and new babies is brilliant with older kids too, so much fun to share the experience with them.
post #8 of 11
Do you plan on telling your children soon about your pregnancies? I am debating. I want to really bad, but think it is maybe a good idea to wait.
post #9 of 11
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Do you plan on telling your children soon about your pregnancies? I am debating. I want to really bad, but think it is maybe a good idea to wait.
I'm trying to figure this one out as well. It's not even that I'm worried about anything happening, *I* am not ready... lol

But I'm trying to figure out what time will be good now!
post #10 of 11
My children will be 7, 6 and 4 when this baby arrives....
Since I had my youngest 3 years and two weeks after my oldest child ( and had one in the middle) I think that this age gap will be a bit different than one I have experienced before....
I have two older siblings 32 and 27... and a few younger 25, 24, 23, 22, 18, and 12..... I loved being close with my siblings growing up, although now I am closest to my 22 yo sister and my 23yo brother... (i am about to be 27)


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Do you plan on telling your children soon about your pregnancies? I am debating. I want to really bad, but think it is maybe a good idea to wait.
Right now I want to wait. Probably until about 12 weeks.... or till i'm showing... not sure yet....
post #11 of 11
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Do you plan on telling your children soon about your pregnancies? I am debating. I want to really bad, but think it is maybe a good idea to wait.

I have a 13yo and soon to be 1yo. I think I'll wait and see if oDD figures it out without me saying. last time she knew before I did... but she's at camp at the moment.
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