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Do people in our generation care about weed?

post #1 of 304
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Okay so if it's not clear by "our" generation I mean generation Y and to give that some perspective I'm 22 at the moment, though I imagine generation X is relatively similar in beliefs and political leanings.

But I never talk to anyone my age or even a bit older who supports the continued illegalization of marijuana; most of them when pressed can articulate the basic pragmatic issues, which is amazing given our peers' ability to speak intelligently about any issue whatsoever. I know people who are pro-life, against gay marriage, I even know a couple of creationists, but I don't know a single person my age who believes we should continue throwing potheads and dealers in jail.

Do you guys know anyone in their early to mid twenties who doesn't support the legalization of marijuana?
post #2 of 304
I'm barely in my 20s anymore (just turned 29), but neither DH nor I think marijuana should be illegal. Now that I think of it, I'm not sure of anyone our age who does feel that way. In Kentucky, it's actually been a big political issue in recent years as we had a candidate for governor who believes we should try to be the first state to legalize marijuana completely to capitalize on the economic benefits.
post #3 of 304
I'm 32, but know a very wide range of people, including my younger sisters and all of their friends who are now in their mid-twenties. I don't know a single person that thinks mj should still be illegal.

I'll also add that there is a real stigma attached to those that partake - and an very unfair one. So most people that do keep it really hush-hush. I've discovered that many of the people I know smoke, but keep it very quiet.
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im surprised its still illegal. I think it hurts us more then it helps us to have those things illegal. Turning more people into "criminals" then there needs to be and tying up resources. I would prefer my tax dollars go to find murderers, rapists, child abductors and molesters, etc. not to marijuana related "crimes"
post #5 of 304
Well, I cant understand why its illegal. Imho it isnt even remotely as dangerous as alcohol. the only reason I believe its illegal still is bc it is so easily grown and the government cannot make enough money on it/control it enough. I do think its a dangerous drug if its abused and over used, it is addictive, tho not physically. I know people who use it heavily and they go thru some kind of withdrawl when trying to come off it. These people use it regularly, habitually. Im 32 btw. Keeping it illegal has not caused anyone to stay away from it thats for sure.
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As my travels and dealings in natural parenting circles have become more indepth and varied...I'm astounded (the good kind) by the number of people who are recreational smokers....doctors, lawyers, artists, chefs, SAHMs, SAHDs....and since noticing that...I see it everywhere in my life...not even confined to those who prescribe to a "natural" lifestyle. I mean, really "normal" people, with nice homes and great lawns...good marriages, who go to tupperware parties and are memebers of the PTA, really active in local going-ons and you know, who like, wear makeup and shave their armpits! I really have come to see, that a LOT of people smoke!

I think if every smoker in the States, stood up all at once and said "Enough with this" it would be ridiculous to continue to pretend that MJ is some scary, underworld, shadowy danger that needs to be squashed out. Some of the best, brightest and most capable parents I know...are out on their decks, "unwinding" after their kids go to bed...and I was SHOCKED to discover this! I don't know why...but I was.

So...yeah. I don't know many people PERIOD who truly believe it should be illegal..and I'm up in conservative NH! What kills me, is the number of lives I've seen destroyed, bodies wrecked, homes split apart...by excessive alcohol use. Now...I've also, in my youth, known a kid or two who had REALLY checked out parents and I sometimes wonder if they weren't gigantic potheads...so, you know, anything in excessive amounts I think can make you a crummy parent....but alcohol, it's SOOO bad. I can remember being on college campuses and seeing all these kids, SUPER pumped on alcohol, fighting, vandelizing, getting rough with their girlfriends...I wonder now, if those kids had been relaxing, smoking MJ, would it have been like that? The fact is, most people I know who partake, are not excessive users...they are people who smoke when they hike and fish...or in the evenings after small people are tucked in...or whenever else. I haven't known anyone, since I was much younger, who NEEDED to smoke to function...it just blows me away that something so potent, which KILLS so many people a year, as alcohol, would be so easy to legally get your hands on....and something like pot, which I consider to be, comparably, not anywhere near as dangerous, could be illegal?? I mean, that, and the MEDICINAL uses for MJ....man, how CRAZY that something which is proven to be helpful to sick people, dying people, women with horrible sickness due to pregnancy, etc could be called "bad" and made illegal?

But I guess when the [sarcasm]Good Ole Gov't of the USA[/sarcasm] gets around to figuring out the tax code for MJ and thinks up some really awesome regulations, permit fees, etc....people can puff in peace.
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I've yet to hear anyone other than a politician say anything about needing to keep MJ illegal, and the few times I've seen a politician make a statement about that, they've been speaking in response to a pro-legalization argument.
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Originally Posted by sapphire_chan View Post
I've yet to hear anyone other than a politician say anything about needing to keep MJ illegal, and the few times I've seen a politician make a statement about that, they've been speaking in response to a pro-legalization argument.
I know a few politicians who speak out about it from the heart...and who aren't ashamed to say that they think it's time to start re-evaluating our true goals in keeping it illegal, especially for medicinal purposes....and even a small feeew politicians for whom the issue, *ahem*, "hits" a bit closer to home...
post #9 of 304
I'm only 28 so I'll play. I'm very conservative and kind of anti-mj. I'll explain- I don't like the idea of smoking anything, I don't want smoke around my kids or my family, and I do think it has health and mental health repercussions.

I DO NOT think it should be illegal though.
post #10 of 304
even the most socially conservative person i know is not against cannibus. he isn't going to win any battles for pro-legalization folks...but he just feels that gov't shouldn't interfere with personal decisions, and that includes alcohol for him.

the most economically conservative person i know thinks that cannibus SHOULD be legalized so that companies can make $$. to him it's criminalization was just one capitalist using government to out compete another.

my own father though, thinks mj should remain illegal. he was a police officer for about 20 years and is one of those guys who thinks that laws are not "faulty" and should not be reexamined. MJ has been and is illegal for a reason, in his eyes. And the people who use it have no respect for authority, which to him should be a crime in itself. i imagine that there are other people like him. i just don't know them since we don't share many of the same circles.

eta: i am 27. First example is 37, second is 25, third is 68.
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even the most socially conservative person i know is not against cannibus. he isn't going to win any battles for pro-legalization folks...but he just feels that gov't shouldn't interfere with personal decisions, and that includes alcohol for him.

the most economically conservative person i know thinks that cannibus SHOULD be legalized so that companies can make $$. to him it's criminalization was just one capitalist using government to out compete another.

my own father though, thinks mj should remain illegal. he was a police officer for about 20 years and is one of those guys who thinks that laws are not "faulty" and should not be reexamined. MJ has been and is illegal for a reason, in his eyes. And the people who use it have no respect for authority, which to him should be a crime in itself. i imagine that there are other people like him. i just don't know them since we don't share many of the same circles.
My bolded = the type of thoughts which keep me up at night. No disrespect to your father....but that scares the crap outta me.
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Originally Posted by chirp View Post
even the most socially conservative person i know is not against cannibus. he isn't going to win any battles for pro-legalization folks...but he just feels that gov't shouldn't interfere with personal decisions, and that includes alcohol for him.

the most economically conservative person i know thinks that cannibus SHOULD be legalized so that companies can make $$. to him it's criminalization was just one capitalist using government to out compete another.

my own father though, thinks mj should remain illegal. he was a police officer for about 20 years and is one of those guys who thinks that laws are not "faulty" and should not be reexamined. MJ has been and is illegal for a reason, in his eyes. And the people who use it have no respect for authority, which to him should be a crime in itself. i imagine that there are other people like him. i just don't know them since we don't share many of the same circles.

eta: i am 27. First example is 37, second is 25, third is 68.
I am 29 and have a 30 yo coworker who is a police officer. She is very anti-mj. It definately stems from the things she sees on duty due to large scale drug dealers. The thing is that most of them that are big hot shot dealers are not only dealing in mj. She once made a comment about how mj kills children and she has seen it... the reality is, people kill people, mj does not! If it were legal, it would be regulated and all those terrible "dealers" would be cut out of the circle eventually... but, the crime would still continue, because they will just find another illegal drug to profit off of.

I am obviously pro-legalization!!!

All my friends and family, younger and older, agree that it should be legal for, at the very least, medicinal use.
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My bolded = the type of thoughts which keep me up at night. No disrespect to your father....but that scares the crap outta me.
hey...it scares the crap out of me too. i love him but i give his point of view no respect because he doesn't respect others P.O.V...hence the whole authority thing.

when i got caught with pot in college he said to me "I got my Sergent's stripes climbing on the backs of people like you." I responded with something about that making him a UAVhead.
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I'll also add that there is a real stigma attached to those that partake - and an very unfair one. So most people that do keep it really hush-hush. I've discovered that many of the people I know smoke, but keep it very quiet.
Yeah that.

I'm 28, dh's 31 and we both think it should be legal. At least in this area, maybe if they legalized it, they could focus more on the harder drugs that are wreaking havoc on whole communities.
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I'm 23. Most people I know partake or have done it or at least are not against it. It's pretty prevalent in my social group. I started partaking pretty young and was shocked to find out how many people did it. It is widespread and is definitely not limited to a "certain kind" of people. I think, economically, it would be the best move for this country to legalize it. Think of the benefits... a MJ tax. A new work industry that would offer jobs. It would seriously help the state of our economy. Plus the fact that growing MJ is amazing for the soil. The roots grow very deep and keep the soil healthy. Why do you think so many farmers grew it back in the day?

Also, if it's legal, it can be regulated. There would be an age limit, much like cigarettes and alcohol. There would be laws about not smoking and driving. You would know what you were getting was pure (or at least have a package to tell you what's been added to it). There would be no fear of it being laced with anything, etc. Right now, it's a black market thing. There are no regulations other than it being illegal. So, no one is keeping an eye on it.
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Mmmm...I'm 26. I care. I know a lot of people who haven't done it, and others who have and now oppose it's use.

But, I travel in pretty conservative circles. I think there are plenty of our peers who do care about it and don't support it's use, but they don' tend to hang around those who are using it and passionately advocating legalization, yk? I don't know about the legalization issue myself. Alcohol abuse contributes to all sorts of horrible happenings, but we already know what happened when they tried to make the sale of alcohol illegal.
post #17 of 304
I'm 20 and think weed should stay illegal because of the mental and health problems it can cause. I also think tobacco should be illegal though- so yes, I'm the odd one out apparently
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Where i live, pretty much every single family and person i know grows it to make a living. It is considered legal here within the legal guidelines, but not federally. The feds do come in a few times a year to break up the large scale grows.

The cons of marijuana. There are people who will rent and buy up all the available properties in town just to grow in and not live in which lives the people who actually need a place to live in with nothing. Many grow houses turn into electrical disasters and moldy death traps. We have house fires all the time due to people messing with the electrical. I see family gatherings where the adults are sitting around passing a bong or a joint while the children run around playing. In my opinion, smoke is smoke and teaching children it is ok to smoke anything is not a good idea healthwise. Yes it is an herb and yes it has herbal properties but the smoke is still dangerous. We have a lot of robberies around here involving marijuana. Alot!

The pros. There is little industry here and our entire town actually makes more money living off the taxes generated through the dispensaries in town. Without that money our town would be nonexistent. The families i know have the ability to raise their kids while working from home and they make quite a bit of money. Some families easily gross a few hundred thousand a year.
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My neighbor is a young kid- got out of the gang life in LA and moved to norther cali- and told me about the cops in LA. They told him and his gang banger buddies one night, after a fight "See, had you just stayed home and smoked some weed we wouldn't have been here. Instead you got drunk and made an ass out of your self. How smart are you?" that was a major turning point for him. He now never drinks.

I think that it should be legal, but I still disagree with kids using it- because to me it's a medication. For all kinds of ailments- from physical pain to emotional pain. I wish our government would use the countless dollars they spend on the persuit of the never ending MJ trail.... and put that money to GOOD use hunting down Meth houses where little kids live among the horrible chemicals. Where people cook meth in hotels and kill all the innocent people that happen to sleep in the same section of motels. That would be something.

I would LOVE to see us become a productive country again- by Hemp. There is a Native American Tribe in the midwest(can't remember where it was on PBS though) that has been BEGGING the US Government to allow them to grow hemp for industrial production and they have been denied again and again. Told to open a Casino. Yet, they want to grow something from the earth and are told they cannot because Hemp is in the cannibus family and therefore illegal. Should they grow it with out permission- the DEA would burn it to the ground. The tribe? would be destroyed too because that would be their lifeline. They are dying a slow and painfull death because they have no way to better themselves, and because the US own's the water they have to have permission.

And Chirp...your dad's belief about people and authority and that laws shouldn't be re-examined is very scary. What's even scarier is that there are other's that think this- young people too! It's very scary and I hope we can start to change soon....
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Originally Posted by emmalizz View Post
I'm 20 and think weed should stay illegal because of the mental and health problems it can cause. I also think tobacco should be illegal though- so yes, I'm the odd one out apparently
I think it could cure a few mental health problems too lol
alcohol is worse, imo, and people who are trying to escape their inner demons will turn to that if they can't get pot. I'd prefer it be easier for them to get some marij. instead. I respect your opinion though. I have tobacco, but I dont think it should be illegal. I think there are a lot of laws that violate or rights and every time they add one more... I just think, which one is going to tbe the gateway law that takes away our freedom?
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