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For those of us passing our due dates w/ no babe... or just tired of being preggo

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I've been stalking the DDC the past two weeks I think just to torture myself reading about women who've had their babies even though their due dates were after mine (mine is tomorrow). I think I'm turning the corner and getting to the point where I can begin to be positive about STILL being pregnant. I know it's important to vent, but I seriously can't handle being THIS negative for another 2 weeks.

I had this quote written down in my journal from my pregnancy with DD (where I went to 41 weeks 3 days). I thought I'd share and hopefully it'll help us all turn the corner.

So here it is:

"Imagine a tree filled with apples. Now we all know that some apples ripen early, many at the same time, some much later- we all know about how one apple will just stay on the tree for days and days- even weeks- after all the others have fallen off. I have personally waited for apples like that- and gently shaking the tree has no effect on getting them to come off. Whacking the apple with a stick would make it fall off... but the apple would not be at its most delectable. So- I wait, and my reward is a sweet, big, juicy apple."

Here's my public admission:
I've had 6 months of worrying about preterm labor (irritable uterus) only to be dealing now with the downsides of going past due. I am a big whiner. I won't have a preemie. I should be happy. And I've decided I WILL be from today on out.
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The apple analogy is awesome
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Originally Posted by Vortexing View Post
Here's my public admission:
I've had 6 months of worrying about preterm labor (irritable uterus) only to be dealing now with the downsides of going past due. I am a big whiner. I won't have a preemie. I should be happy. And I've decided I WILL be from today on out.
I should be on the same thought track as you. I spent months on edge worrying about losing the baby/pre-term labor & now I'm griping I'm overdue kind of.

I did have a nice dream about holding my lo though, that gave me happy thoughts for the day.
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My edd is tuesday. I feel nothing. I mean labor wise. I don't have an inkling a twinge, haven't had a cramp to speak of, other than the raging charlie horses in my thighs and calves. And I am eating bananas and cantelope etc. Anyway, i'm huge, my kids are sick of me. Last night I kicked everyone out of my bed at like 1 am, DH took the kids and ran! I think everyone in my house is ready for this baby!
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I'm *only* 38 weeks but when I think about the possibility of being pregnant for another month I feel pretty sad. I am so ready to not be pregnant anymore, but I also believe that life unfolds just as it should and no amount of wishing and worrying is going to influence the arrival of this babe. Letting nature take its course and stepping aside is much harder emotional work than I ever expected!

I love the apple analogy. Says it perfectly!
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Thanks for posting this. I haven't been visiting my various birth boards as much lately because while I'm really happy for all the people with babies in their arms, I'm getting so, so, so impatient. Honestly, it makes me a bit jealous, and I don't like that feeling!

These last few weeks are the hardest, emotionally, physically, all of it.
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