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Originally Posted by judybean 
I feel so completely overwhelmed with this topic (car seats)... I'm trying to wade through it all.... *sigh*
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Check out the forums at
http://www.car-seat.org. They have tons of information there. They basically say that the safest car seat is one that you can install in your particular car correctly every single time. For example, my friend has a Radian, but she couldn't get it installed ff in the Honda Accord we had for a while. I went and looked at the forums at car-seat.org and it's a common problem with Radians and Accords. We were thinking of getting a Radian instead of our Britax but the Radian is too long for our car to rf.
I've read that because your baby's shoulders are supposed to be above the harness slot when rf, that you should start with a bucket car seat. I know there is debate about that though, since it means buying an extra car seat. But seeing how small my daughter was in a convertible even at 8 months, I personally couldn't imagine putting a newborn in one. We started with the Graco SafeSeat because it's bigger than most other buckets and the babies fit in it longer. My daughter would have outgrown some of the smaller ones after just a couple of months. She still hadn't outgrown the SafeSeat at 8 months (and would have fit in it until well after a year), but we were in a car accident and had to destroy it. Luckily for us the insurance company paid for our new one (the Britax).
We chose the Britax because it had good side impact safety and I like the fact that it tethers rear facing as well as forward facing. But I know there are lots of other really good ones out there and some that are a lot cheaper. My personal suggestion is to go to the store and try a few out (play with the buckles, touch the fabric, loosen and tighten them, you might hate one that most people love or vice versa), then read reviews on car-seat.org, then pick one and take it to a car seat clinic or a fire station and have someone show you how to install it in your car. The brand/make of car seat really doesn't matter nearly as much as having it properly installed. I know so many friends with two year olds already who still don't know how to properly install their car seats in their cars.