My little sister just annouced she is pregnant
:. Is it selfish for me to pray that she has a girl. She and her husband are extremely pro-circ. Which is strange because his father is Irish (not circ'd) his Bil is Canadian not circ'd,their son (his sisters) is intact. My ds is intact etc. The only reason her dh is circ'd is because he was adopted at 10 months. What can I do or say. Last year when I mentioned it she screamed at me and hung up the phone saying it was up to her husband and I was making a mountain out of a mole hill!! "It's a quick snip" "you non circ people are loony". Please give her only girls......
:. Is it selfish for me to pray that she has a girl. She and her husband are extremely pro-circ. Which is strange because his father is Irish (not circ'd) his Bil is Canadian not circ'd,their son (his sisters) is intact. My ds is intact etc. The only reason her dh is circ'd is because he was adopted at 10 months. What can I do or say. Last year when I mentioned it she screamed at me and hung up the phone saying it was up to her husband and I was making a mountain out of a mole hill!! "It's a quick snip" "you non circ people are loony". Please give her only girls......
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. I am still going to give my sister all of my anti circ lit. Please offer suggestions all I have is bsicinfo nothing real persuasive. Although my mother (who did circ my brothers) is now a huge intactavist, has shared with her many stories of babies in her own hospitals requiring multiple transfusions,lossof a penis, permanent damage and massive scarring. My sister does not "hear" it because se is young and nothing will happen to her baby 
: And oh yeah she by the way "Only wants boys as does her dh" how about A healthy baby....girl????
and we would not have to move or buy anything. But I still would love to have had a daughter and maybe someday I will. But to say "we are only having boys" (and can't wait to cut themI don't get it.
