PeevesCan I contribute the peeves of my ex-husband? Maybe then it will be clear why I got divorced......
I attempted to have 3 different hampers--one for darks, one for whites and one for colors. He ignored them, and would either leave his clothes all over the floor, or just take them off and put everything he had on in whatever hamper he felt like lifting the top off of.
He used to take off his socks, inside out, then put them in a ball and put them in the hamper. I got sick of unballing them and turning them the right way, so I started just putting them in the washing machine in the backwards ball----but get this, he got made at me for NOT unballing them and turning them right side in!!!
He used to take a shower and leave the wet towel on top of the just-made bed............despite me asking him time and time again not to do that because it made the bed all wet.
He would make a peanut butter sandwich, and leave the knife with peanut butter (and sometimes jelly) all over it in the sink. The peanut butter would get hard and get onto the sink----and guess who had to take a scrubbie pad and get it off??
He smoked, and if there was no ash tray within his arm's reach so he could squash the butt out, he would balance the filter on it's head on any flat surface. That used to drive me NUTS!! I'd be walking around the house, finding cig butts on his nightstand, on the desk where the computer was, in the coffee table in front of the couch.
He was just a total slob, seriously. Those are just a couple of the things he used to do---there are a ton more, believe me. He was just totally inept to do anything for himself----like a child that never advanced from age 4. But, he was a lawyer, so go figure. If it weren't for me, he would have showed up in court with holes in his pants.