Yep I said it...
So I need advise or thoughts or any reasearch you ladies have or found or just know.
My husband was diagnosed with herpes, I have no idea type 1 or 2, about 3 years ago. He had that one out break and never another one. He took valtrex to clear it up and hasn't taken anything since. We continued to have unprotected sex...because honestly I don't know if I can avoid it for the rest of my life so why make ourselves crazy. Apparently type 1 or 2 can show up on genitals...and that is why I have no idea what type it is.
So I am now 30 weeks along, never had a blood test for it, never had an out break and have no idea if I even have it. So I mentioned it to my MW, she suggested taking valtrex starting at 36 weeks. Apparently if I have an outbreak, then I will be forced in to a C-Section...my worst nightmare! So the Valtrex would be more of a preventative.
So the MW says there are NO side effects...but can I really believe that? She said it is a safe as tylenol...having trouble buying that one! So help me please...what would you do?
I thought about having the blood test at 34 or 36 weeks seeing how it comes back if negative just not having sex until after the birth and if it is postive then starting Valtrex...but I don't even know if this is possible!
HELP
So I need advise or thoughts or any reasearch you ladies have or found or just know.
My husband was diagnosed with herpes, I have no idea type 1 or 2, about 3 years ago. He had that one out break and never another one. He took valtrex to clear it up and hasn't taken anything since. We continued to have unprotected sex...because honestly I don't know if I can avoid it for the rest of my life so why make ourselves crazy. Apparently type 1 or 2 can show up on genitals...and that is why I have no idea what type it is.
So I am now 30 weeks along, never had a blood test for it, never had an out break and have no idea if I even have it. So I mentioned it to my MW, she suggested taking valtrex starting at 36 weeks. Apparently if I have an outbreak, then I will be forced in to a C-Section...my worst nightmare! So the Valtrex would be more of a preventative.
So the MW says there are NO side effects...but can I really believe that? She said it is a safe as tylenol...having trouble buying that one! So help me please...what would you do?
I thought about having the blood test at 34 or 36 weeks seeing how it comes back if negative just not having sex until after the birth and if it is postive then starting Valtrex...but I don't even know if this is possible!
HELP










), but you can't be sure. I got it from a guy I dated in college who I knew had it, but we tried to be careful. It was years after we broke up that I had my first outbreak. This pregnancy I'm seeing a DEM instead of an OB, and my OB won't write a prescription for a pregnant patient unless they are directly under her care (don't get me started on that BS) so I'm going to talk to my MW about natural suppression since it's been over a year since I've had an outbreak. I've also heard of women using clear nail polish or super glue to cover an active outbreak if they have one at the time of delivery. For you, my biggest concern is that if you have an outbreak, it would be your first one and not only do most people feel pretty crappy during a primary outbreak (flu like symptoms on top of the actual sore) and probably not in prime laboring condition, but the risk of transmission is highest during a primary outbreak. In this case I would lean toward the risk of the medication being less than the risk of complications from an active outbreak at the time of labor.