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CLW-STB-5yrold-DS- Want to stop him from touching me when he's not nursing

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During his nursing he drinks actually and you can see the milk on his lips.

So then his nursing his decreasing and he's starting to drink regular milk more than he used too along with water.

One thing is like he will just walk up to me say I see boobies , rubs his face against them , or either reaches up in my shirt and try to juggle them.

I'm telling him Brendan Stop Doing that , he doesn't and I even say Mommy boobies are only for drinking .

If your not drinking them then no touching .

Sometimes it works or he ends up calling me Stupid.
post #2 of 4
My 4yo almost 5 yo...likes to nuzzle my ninnes...if i'm sitting on the couch or big chair. It's for attention...if you could turn the attention into a positive event rather than a negative event.
Possible " yes these are mama's boobies and mama well let you know when you can nurse or nuzzle" " Mama loves you very much" "please ask mama before you touch my boobies"
Possibly offering to read a book or play a game when he wants to nurse....as i'm typing my 4 yo is nuzzling my ninnies and he has been told that he can nurse tonight before bedtime...not before...so to get him to stop..i gave him lots of hugs and reminded him what our plan was for the day and with some persausion on my end he got up and found something else to do. Good Luck.
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OMG my 3yr old does the same thing he has been weaned since january only cause i couldnt take anymore with tandam nursing and my oldest would still be nursing if i let him

but the touching grabbing rubbing juggling is driving me nuts i always tell him dont touch mommies boobies they r mine u have ur own

yesterday my son touched my friends boobies i told her watch out he is grabby loool
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This sounds like a behavioral thing. I woudln't tolerate it and definelty wouldn't tolerate being called stupid. I would talk to him about it at a calm time and tell him you don't like it and you don't want him to do it anymore. If he continues to do it after gentle reminders not to I would treat it like any other acting out and do whatever it is that you normally do when he is exhibiting undesirable behavior. He is plenty old enough to learn to respect your body.
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