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post #1 of 25
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My husband sent me this in an email. I don't know where it comes from but can anyone help me with this? I know some of this isn't true but I'd like to give him good info when I respond. TIA

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Are there benefits from circumcision?
There are several:

1 Many older men, who have bladder or prostate gland problems, also develop difficulties with their foreskins due to their surgeon's handling, cleaning, and using instruments. Some of these patients will need circumcising. Afterwards it is often astonishing to find some who have never ever seen their glans (knob) exposed before!

2 Some older men develop cancer of the penis - about 1 in 1000 - fairly rare, but tragic if you or your son are in that small statistic. Infant circumcision gives almost 100% protection, and young adult circumcision also gives a large degree of protection.

3 Cancer of the cervix in women is due to the Human Papilloma Virus. It thrives under and on the foreskin from where it can be transmitted during intercourse. An article in the British Medical Journal in April 2002 suggested that at least 20% of cancer of the cervix would be avoided if all men were circumcised. Surely that alone makes it worth doing?

4 Protection against HIV and AIDS. Another British Medical Journal article in May 2000 suggested that circumcised men are 8 times less likely to contract the HIV virus. (It is very important here to say that the risk is still far too high and that condoms and safe sex must be used - this applies also to preventing cancer of the cervix in women who have several partners.)

A BBC television programme in November 2000 showed two Ugandan tribes across the valley from one another. One practised circumcision and had very little AIDS, whereas, it was common in the other tribe, who then also started circumcising. This programme showed how the infection thrived in the lining of the foreskin, making it much easier to pass on.

5 As with HIV, so some protection exists against other sexually transmitted infections. Accordingly, if a condom splits or comes off, there is some protection for the couple. However, the only safe sex is to stick to one partner or abstain.

6 Lots of men, and their partners, prefer the appearance of their penis after circumcision, It is odour-free, it feels cleaner, and they enjoy better sex. Awareness of a good body image is a very important factor in building self confidence.

7 Balanitis is an unpleasant, often recurring, inflammation of the glans. It is quite common and can be prevented by circumcision.

8 Urinary tract infections sometimes occur in babies and can be quite serious. Circumcision in infancy makes it 10 times less likely.
post #2 of 25
Quote:
Are there benefits from circumcision?
There are several:

1 Many older men, who have bladder or prostate gland problems, also develop difficulties with their foreskins due to their surgeon's handling, cleaning, and using instruments. Some of these patients will need circumcising. Afterwards it is often astonishing to find some who have never ever seen their glans (knob) exposed before!

2 Some older men develop cancer of the penis - about 1 in 1000 - fairly rare, but tragic if you or your son are in that small statistic. Infant circumcision gives almost 100% protection, and young adult circumcision also gives a large degree of protection.

3 Cancer of the cervix in women is due to the Human Papilloma Virus. It thrives under and on the foreskin from where it can be transmitted during intercourse. An article in the British Medical Journal in April 2002 suggested that at least 20% of cancer of the cervix would be avoided if all men were circumcised. Surely that alone makes it worth doing?

4 Protection against HIV and AIDS. Another British Medical Journal article in May 2000 suggested that circumcised men are 8 times less likely to contract the HIV virus. (It is very important here to say that the risk is still far too high and that condoms and safe sex must be used - this applies also to preventing cancer of the cervix in women who have several partners.)

A BBC television programme in November 2000 showed two Ugandan tribes across the valley from one another. One practised circumcision and had very little AIDS, whereas, it was common in the other tribe, who then also started circumcising. This programme showed how the infection thrived in the lining of the foreskin, making it much easier to pass on.

5 As with HIV, so some protection exists against other sexually transmitted infections. Accordingly, if a condom splits or comes off, there is some protection for the couple. However, the only safe sex is to stick to one partner or abstain.

6 Lots of men, and their partners, prefer the appearance of their penis after circumcision, It is odour-free, it feels cleaner, and they enjoy better sex. Awareness of a good body image is a very important factor in building self confidence.

7 Balanitis is an unpleasant, often recurring, inflammation of the glans. It is quite common and can be prevented by circumcision. http://www.cirp.org/library/disease/balanitis/ (this shows balanitis is actually more common in circed boys than intact)

8 Urinary tract infections sometimes occur in babies and can be quite serious. Circumcision in infancy makes it 10 times less likely. http://www.cirp.org/library/disease/UTI/
I'd ask how items 1-6 pertain at all to your infant, sexually-inactive, son (as they all referenced men) and show the links disproving items 7 and 8.
post #3 of 25
I was just reading something on... uh, some of this.
Some people I know were discussing circ'ing and I couldn't think of anything other than, "it's horrible!" so I did some reading.

Points I know about for sure:

Studies done in Africa- very very poorly controlled, poorly thought out and executed, and had a higher drop out rate then an infection rate. It is unwise to take them seriously.

Older men with prostate problems- so we should cut off foreskins because surgeons aren't capable of handling them properly? Shouldn't surgeons receive possibly better training to avoid damaging the foreskin during prostate surgery?

Older men with penile cancer- 1 in 1000 risk, but the risks of circumcision (infection, bleeding, death, severe trauma, problems with the circumcision, increased UTI's, painful erections, premature ejaculation, impotence- and so on) IMO, far out weighs the risks of penile cancer.


The argument that it's cleaner, it smells cleaner, and body image... actually reminds me of an ad from the 1950's selling Lysol-brand douches. Because it's a woman's duty to her husband to be clean, fresh, and odor-free. What it SOUNDS like is that culturally we don't know that discharge (vaginal discharge, that white stuff under the foreskin that I can't remember the name of) is healthy and normal. Just like women used to be encouraged to douche regularly, and women didn't know that discharge was normal, men don't know that the white stuff is normal and clean. Men need to accept it, women need to get over it, and before you know it people will joke about circ like they do about douches.

Better sex- HUGE myth. The penis is at first very very sensitive (nothing to protect it, right?) which might be fun for a bit. But then from constant rubbing on clothes the sensitivity fades or it becomes TOO sensitive, so sex is painful or there are impotence/orgasm problems because they can't feel anything. Caluses and lesions on the glans from constant rubbing are also a problem- how that would make for better sex, I don't know.

My DH is circ'd. He has premature ejac problems, and we can only do it once a day or it's too sensitive and it hurts. So really. Not fun. (although I'm sureh e would not appreciate me telling anyone this :P)



Also- if you can get an infection, or if you find it hard to clean, or if you need prostate surgery when you're older, why not be circumsized THEN? It's like saying, "oh, well, a lot of people have problems with their appendix- why not cut it out NOW when they're babies and save everyone the trouble?"

It just doesn't make any sense. Why do painful, mutilating surgery on babies to PREVENT the possibility that something might go wrong later? What if something goes wrong because of the circ - it's not like you can just be like, "oh, whoops, lets put this foreskin back on again, that should get rid of that nasty infection!"


About the HIV studies in Africa (from http://www.circumstitions.com/)

HIV Claims Wildly Exaggerated.

Headline: "Circumcision Halves HIV"
Fact: 56 Circumcisions needed
to prevent one case
of HIV in Uganda per year
(if the study is flawless, and it's not, and in the US - other things being equal, and they're not - 380 circumcisions!)
No!

The Uganda and Kenya studies claim to find that circumcised men are less likely to contract HIV than intact men. Based on these, mass circumcision campaigns have begun in various African countries - even where a greater proportion of circumcised men have HIV than intact men. Plans are being made to encourage the circumcision of babies.

This is utter folly, a waste of resources and a dangerous distraction from the real issues of HIV/AIDS (as well as a human rights violation).

* Babies do not have sex. Any benefit of infant circumcision in preventing the spread of HIV/AIDS will not take effect until they reach puberty.
* In Africa, many babies do not live to reach puberty. The cost and effort of circumcising them would be better spent on measures that help them survive childhood.
* The studies were of volunteers. Infant circumcision raises ethical issues. It can certainly be argued that it breaches
o the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights,
o the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights, and
o the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child.
* The studies were cut short. Over a longer period of time, the supposed benefit of circumcision will be reduced.
o The circumcised group was told to abstain from sex for six weeks, or use condoms. The control group was not.
o When the study was ended, the intact control group was offered circumcision, so it will not be possible to tell if the effect was lasting or not.
* Almost as many of the circumcised group in Kenya contracted HIV as the intact (control) group in Uganda, so something they do in Uganda (such as campaign against promiscuity) is about as effective as circumcision. (The Luo people in Kisumu, Kenya, where the study was held, are fishermen on Lake Victoria with "girlfriends" in every port. Local women trade sex for fish.)
* Circumcision is no vaccine
* Circumcision is not cost-free or risk-free. Even if the studies are correct, 56 circumcisions to prevent one man getting infected with HIV is not the most effective way of spending the money, time and expertise.
* Circumcising men disempowers women. Important co-factors of HIV/AIDS are unprotected sex and "dry sex". Circumcising men makes it harder for women to refuse these, and no less risky to accept them.
* Circumcising men does not protect women. One study, widely reported to have shown a protective effect, did not in fact reach statistical significance. Nor did a more recent one but it suggested women are at up to 50% more risk.





(PS- this is from approx 1 hr of research. I am sure some of my facts are weird/wrong, maybe the resources I read are lousy, so I'm sure someone else can give you better answers!)
post #4 of 25
Medical Justifications of Circumcision
In the Victorian era, circumcision was used by American doctors to stop the “evils” of masturbation. Soon after, doctors claimed it to be a “cure-all” for maladies ranging from bed-wetting and headaches to insanity (Fleiss, 1997).
Fleiss suggests that the medical reasons have been updated- instead of “curing” masturbation and insanity, circumcision now reduces the risk of cancer and urinary tract infections.

Of course, in our medically advanced age, there must be some basis for the medical benefits of circumcision. The three main reasons given are a lower risk of urinary tract infections, penile cancer, and human immunodeficiency virus.

Cantu (2004) reports that uncircumcised male infants have a higher rate of urinary tract infections. The risk of an uncircumcised male infant is 4-10 times higher than that of a circumcised infant. However, the absolute risk of an uncircumcised male infant for developing a urinary tract infection is still only approximately 1%.

With such a small chance of developing a urinary tract infection, it does not appear to be a valid reason for recommending routine circumcision for all infant males.


Penile cancer is a particularly deadly form of cancer. “Of the approximately 1,300 men in the United States who develop penile cancer in a given year, only half will be alive 5 years later” (Crooks, 2005).

According to my research, if 1,300 men in the United States will develop penile cancer, it breaks down to 9 in 1,000,000 men or .000903% of the male population. Obviously, this is an extremely rare form of cancer. It is so rare in fact, “the true risk that an uncircumcised male will develop penile cancer is very low” (Cantu, 2004).

Although uncircumcised men have a higher risk of penile cancer, the risk is still so low that it is not a valid reason for routine male circumcision.

Circumcision advocates claim that circumcised males have a lower risk for developing human immunodeficiency virus.
Research shows that human immunodeficiency virus is more difficult to contract for circumcised males. This statement sounds promising enough. However, “there does not appear to be a reduced risk of transmission from an infected, circumcised man to his female partner” (Bonner, 2001). Thus, it appears that circumcision may help men’s health, but not the health of their female partners.

According to Bonner (2001), “much of the research that has been published is American and given its strong, pro-circumcision tradition, biases both pro and con are often evident in the literature”.


Studies are being conducted in Africa to assess how useful circumcision is in this area. Circumcision is becoming more common in various parts of that country.This may be dangerous. Although circumcision is a relatively low-risk procedure in developed countries, it is not as safe in other settings. “In January 2000, four deaths due to hemorrhage and infection and around 100 hospital admissions were reported in South Africa due to ‘botched circumcision ceremonies’” (Bonner, 2001).

It seems that “circumcision is an attractive intervention for individuals at risk because it does not involve long-term behavioral change” (Bonner, 2001). Bonner (2001) suggests that until we have a better understanding of why circumcision lowers male HIV susceptibility, the wisest course is to recommend proven techniques, like condom use.

I agree with Cantu’s (2004) statement that, “uncircumcised males may be at higher risk of acquiring sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV infection. However, behavioral factors are much more important than circumcision status in the acquisition of HIV infection”.

As the American Academy of Pediatrics (1999) states, “Existing scientific evidence demonstrates potential medical benefits of newborn male circumcision; however, these data are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal circumcision. [Emphasis added]”

Bonner, K. (2001, November). Male Circumcision as an HIV Control Strategy: Not a “Natural Condom”. Reproductive Health Matters, vol. 9 no. 18. Retrieved November 20, 2004 from the World Wide Web: http://www.rhmjournal.org.uk

Cantu, S. Jr. (2004, July 9). Circumcision. eMedicine Journal. Retrieved November 21, 2004 from the World Wide Web: http://www.emedicine.com/ped/topic1791.htm

Crooks, R., & Baur, K. (2005). Our Sexuality. (9th ed.) California: Thomson Wadsworth

Fleiss, P.M. ( 1997, Winter). “The Case Against Circumcision”. Mothering. p. 36-45. Retrieved November 24, 2004 from the World Wide Web: http://www.noharmm.org/mothering.htm
post #5 of 25
where did he get this? I'm curious about his source, it might help know how to argue against it.

I've told people, "even if it was 100% certain that my adult son would have to be circumcised for whatever reason, I still wouldn't do it to him as an infant." The procedure on adult men is less complicated physically than on infants, and plus, they get to make the decision about their own bodies.

this would be somewhat analogous to routine mastectomies for all infant girls whose family carries the breast cancer gene.
post #6 of 25
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Originally Posted by CallMeMommy View Post
I'd ask how items 1-6 pertain at all to your infant, sexually-inactive, son (as they all referenced men) and show the links disproving items 7 and 8.
Really good points!!!

DH is not the type to force this on our son if I'm opposed to it but I'd really like him to be supportive and educated.
post #7 of 25
Oh, and the Penn and Teller video is a fun way to get a point across.

http://crackle.com/c/Penn_Says#id=2479092

It might speak to him in a manly way.
post #8 of 25
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this would be somewhat analogous to routine mastectomies for all infant girls whose family carries the breast cancer gene.
What a very good point! I never did any research about circumcision when it came to having my little boy 8 years ago now, but I just knew circumcision was painful and wholly unnecessary. Everything, especially the bits about aids, in the email your dh sent you is just obscure and pretty much all made up. There is NO reason to circumcise babies. It is only practiced in the usa out of tradition and bc all the daddies have it done so their boys have to have it done too. If one was doing it for religious reasons, Im not going to have a go at them for it, but for medical reasons, its completely unnecessary.
post #9 of 25
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Originally Posted by Hopeful Mama View Post
My husband sent me this in an email. I don't know where it comes from but can anyone help me with this? I know some of this isn't true but I'd like to give him good info when I respond. TIA
Wow, is this thing full of half truths and straight out lies.

The obvious stuff that is wrong is that the penis will be cleaner if cut, that all men will be more "confident" if cut, and that men who get circumcised will have better sex. HUUUUGGGGEEE lies, Even with the last one, the post a pro-circer can argue is that the penis is no less sensitive after being cut, but to claim its more sensitive is out right crazy.

2. I love the scare tactics they use here. Its true, 1 in 1000 is correct. But did you know that the rates for men getting breast cancer are nearly the same , if not higher! But as, "fairly rare, but tragic if you or your son are in that small statistic." And all you need to do to protect your son is give him a mastectomy. (Hey, men dont use their breasts, so why not?) **Now doesnt their logic sound a bit more crazy**

But besides all that, this emails fails to mention the EXTREMELY low death rates do to penile cancer, so the real chances of a boy dying from this are EXTREMELY rare.
post #10 of 25
You will find the article in it's entirety here:
http://www.circinfo.com/benefits/bmc.html

IIRC this is a circumfetishist site. It's run by the The Gilgal
Society, who's mission statement includes:

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Our current primary activity is providing accurate, medically approved, information about male circumcision and its benefits in terms of health and self-image.
http://www.gilgalsoc.org/index.html

so, they are out to promote circumcision, not give even handed information.
post #11 of 25
I like the point that if it is necessary (which it isn't) it can be done later in life when more pain meds can be given.
post #12 of 25
Just chiming in with my own personal experience...everyone else has posted some great facts...just wanted to add that my DH (he's from Eastern Europe) is NOT circ'd and has never had a single issue.
post #13 of 25
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Originally Posted by perspective View Post
Wow, is this thing full of half truths and straight out lies.

The obvious stuff that is wrong is that the penis will be cleaner if cut, that all men will be more "confident" if cut, and that men who get circumcised will have better sex. HUUUUGGGGEEE lies, Even with the last one, the post a pro-circer can argue is that the penis is no less sensitive after being cut, but to claim its more sensitive is out right crazy.

2. I love the scare tactics they use here. Its true, 1 in 1000 is correct. But did you know that the rates for men getting breast cancer are nearly the same , if not higher! But as, "fairly rare, but tragic if you or your son are in that small statistic." And all you need to do to protect your son is give him a mastectomy. (Hey, men dont use their breasts, so why not?) **Now doesnt their logic sound a bit more crazy**

But besides all that, this emails fails to mention the EXTREMELY low death rates do to penile cancer, so the real chances of a boy dying from this are EXTREMELY rare.
I'm in total agreement, and wanted to add the point that penile cancer can be contracted in ANY PART OF THE PENIS. So circumcising will only help if the cancer can be predicted to DEFINITELY occur only in the foreskin. Since we know that circumcised men also get penile cancer, this is simply not true. Therefore, circumcision does not prevent penile cancer.


Of course, that point can also be made about HIV and other STDs. The US has one of the highest rates of STDs in the developed world and we are also the country with the highest rate of circumcision in the developed world. If circi'ing were really some last line of defense against disease then our country, with its relatively abundant access to condoms, clean water and basic hygiene information, should have ridiculously low rates of HIV, STDs or any other type of genital/sexual infection. This is NOT the case in reality, thus circumcision doesn't help.

The same thing can be said about UTIs. Besides most American doctors have never been taught how to care for an intact penis and mostly resort to lopping off the bits they are unfamiliar with. Through their ignorance, they teach new trusting parents techniques for "caring" for their intact sons that virtually guarantee the occurence of infections, scar tissue, adhesions, etc, then when the baby boys are brought in with the inevitable problems they are there to cut it off (because that is all they know to do). Outside of this country, that is not how it works. Outside of this country the intact male population is not one giant congregation of inflammation and disease.

That's because outside of this country parents, men, and doctors know that all the penis needs is to be left alone. Don't pull it back. Don't scrub it with soap and a washcloth. Don't "just check". Don't freak out when a little smegma (antibacterial, antifungal, antiseptic fluid produced by the body to CLEAN the interior of the penis) appears. Don't panic at a little ballooning and/or redness because that is the body's normal way of preparing for separation. Don't hyperventilate if he's not fully retracted by two years old as he very likely won't be until PUBERTY. Or during puberty. Or on completion of puberty. At which point if he is truly experiencing any malfunctions he can decide for himself how he wants to procede.

Wow. I didn't quite intend to get on such a big soap box. Carry on.
post #14 of 25
would he be willing to watch a video that show the true biology of the penis pre and post circ and an actual footage of a baby boy being circ'd? That really opened my eyes!!
post #15 of 25
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6 Lots of men, and their partners, prefer the appearance of their penis after circumcision, It is odour-free, it feels cleaner, and they enjoy better sex. Awareness of a good body image is a very important factor in building self confidence.
And if your husband is the type who enjoys reading scientific journal articles, this article from the British Journal of Urology finds that

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The glans of the circumcised penis is less sensitive to fine touch than the glans of the uncircumcised penis. The transitional region from the external to the internal prepuce is the most sensitive region of the uncircumcised penis and more sensitive than the most sensitive region of the circumcised penis. Circumcision ablates the most sensitive parts of the penis.
post #16 of 25
He got this from a circ fetishist's site. As perspective says it is filled with lies! This site distorts a few studies to make his argument look valid. Good sites to get info from:

www.cirp.org
www.nocirc.org
www.intactamerica.org
www.circumstitions.com
www.circinfosite.com
www.stopthecut.org
post #17 of 25
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Originally Posted by perspective View Post
Wow, is this thing full of half truths and straight out lies.

2. I love the scare tactics they use here. Its true, 1 in 1000 is correct. But did you know that the rates for men getting breast cancer are nearly the same , if not higher! But as, "fairly rare, but tragic if you or your son are in that small statistic." And all you need to do to protect your son is give him a mastectomy. (Hey, men dont use their breasts, so why not?) **Now doesnt their logic sound a bit more crazy**

But besides all that, this emails fails to mention the EXTREMELY low death rates do to penile cancer, so the real chances of a boy dying from this are EXTREMELY rare.


http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/types/penile/

The American Cancer Institute website above states the following which indicates penile cancer is very rare in the U.S. The 1 in 1000 is WAY OFF ! Also remember that penile cancer affects circumcised men too !

" Definition of penile cancer: A rare cancer that forms in the penis (an external male reproductive organ). Most penile cancers are squamous cell carcinomas (cancer that begins in flat cells lining the penis)."

" Estimated new cases and deaths from penile (and other male genital) cancer in the United States in 2009:
New cases: 1,290
Deaths: 300 "
post #18 of 25
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Originally Posted by Dev View Post
http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/types/penile/

The American Cancer Institute website above states the following which indicates penile cancer is very rare in the U.S. The 1 in 1000 is WAY OFF ! Also remember that penile cancer affects circumcised men too !

" Definition of penile cancer: A rare cancer that forms in the penis (an external male reproductive organ). Most penile cancers are squamous cell carcinomas (cancer that begins in flat cells lining the penis)."

" Estimated new cases and deaths from penile (and other male genital) cancer in the United States in 2009:
New cases: 1,290
Deaths: 300 "
North America > United States > Mortality


AMERICAN MORTALITY STATS: Top Stats All Stats


Assault by sharp object 1,805 deaths [3rd of 58]
Cholera 1 deaths [10th of 15]
Contact with venomous snakes and lizards 12 deaths [12th of 33]
Cystic fibrosis 494 deaths [1st of 51]
Death rate, crude > per 1,000 people 8.25 per 1,000 people Time series [91st of 195]
Down syndrome 713 deaths [1st of 55]
Eating disorders 218 deaths [1st of 40]
Emphysema 16,700 deaths [1st of 58]
Epilepsy 812 deaths [5th of 58]
Erosion and ectropion of cervix uteri 1 deaths [4th of 6]
Fall involving bed 450 deaths [1st of 46]
Flatulence and related conditions 5 deaths [4th of 12]
Impetigo 3 deaths [2nd of 17]
Infectious mononucleosis 13 deaths [2nd of 31]
Obesity 2,989 deaths [1st of 52]
rate, adult, female > per 1,000 female adults 83.8 per 1,000 female adults Time series [134th of 185]
rate, infant > per 1,000 live births 6 per 1,000 live births Time series [152nd of 187]
Scabies 1 deaths [9th of 15]
Scarlet fever 2 deaths [3rd of 15]
Schizophrenia 411 deaths [1st of 50]

Source: Nationmaster

The baby is more likely to fall off his own bed and kill himself.
post #19 of 25
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North America > United States > Mortality



Flatulence and related conditions 5 deaths

OT but... I had NO idea!!!
post #20 of 25
OT: How does one die of flatulence? I mean, my grandfather probably came as close as anyone could, but he died of heart disease. Now, dying of someone ELSE's flatulence, I might could undersand, 'cause I've come close!

...

About circ reducing cancer, of course that is true. ANY piece of a person that is cut off will never experience cancer. But that only applies to the part removed, not the one(s) left behind. So circ eliminates cancer of the foreskin, not cancer of the penis. Just like removing a baby's pinky toe would completely eliminate cancer of that toe. But cancer of the foot would still be possible.

But NO other body part is prophylactically sliced off of infants, just so they won't get cancer of that particular part at some point in the future. Imagine removing part of a baby girl, just so at age 85 she doesn't get cancer of the labia. You would get arrested! Our boys deserve the same protection.
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