I had an orgasm and it didn't hurt but we didn't dtd. I have to say that I did worry about incontinence a little, though.
Question for those of you who have been through this before... I used a tampon today (I know, not supposed to postpartum, but I went for a run and just couldn't wear a pad.) It was only in for about an hour but boy did it hurt! It was fine when it went in and after about 30 minutes or so I started to feel really sore. It hurt removing it, too (and it wasn't dry). Once it was out I was totally fine - no lasting discomfort.
So is this what sex is going to feel like the first time? Now I am scared! I was thinking about going for it in the next few days but now I am not so sure
: What do you guys think?