Hi, just joining this thread. I've been single for almost a year, and now looking for dates again. I've been emailing a guy I went to high school with, and it looks like it might be going somewhere. He was a scrawny skate punk back then (like me, back then), and now he's super hot! When I saw him last year, I was like, OMG, he grew a bunch of muscles! He practices martial arts, yoga, and Taoism, and he works at Whole Foods.
: Might be kind of a playa', not sure, but that's OK with me. I'm just gonna go with the flow and have fun with my newfound (and hard fought-for) independence and bright outlook on life. He lives like 3 to 4 hours from me, but he is coming up next month to visit nearby friends and we are going to get together while he's here.
Also, on a somewhat unrelated note... I've noticed something in myself. It's definitely not arrogance or haught, but when young men check me out (which is happening a lot lately
) I feel something new, like I'm stronger than them? Like they are not strong enough to get this? It's weird, but I've been through a hell of a lot of trials in my life, and I'm a Queen now, like a capital Q Queen, and it's all on my mind lately (all the grindstones of trial that have equipped me with swords and sheilds and armor and battle axes and banners in my soul), and a Banished Warrior Queen does not just date anybody with roving eyes.