I'm a Catholic Christian, though DH is not (he was raised in the Christian faith but is not Catholic though he does attend Mass with me). We have two beautiful children. We do not contracept and have been actively trying for another since June 2009. I've been through three miscarriages since that time. It has been a difficult journey and definitely not something I expected. I had no problems conceiving my first two children. And really, not much trouble conceiving the other three. It's been the carrying to term that has been difficult. However, my last m/c was in June and I haven't been pregnant since. So I don't know what's going on. My insurance at my new job goes into effect next week, so I think it's time to make an OB/GYN appointment and hopefully find some answers.
I believe much like LTB - male testing that cannot be obtained during BD would be unacceptable for us. I'm up for just about any tests on myself. And medications would be OK but not any artificial reproductive techniques.
I didn't realize that QF meant not trying but not preventing. I just assumed they were always trying, lol. I admire those that are at complete peace with whichever outcome occurs each cycle. I strive for that, but the thought of giving up on trying...well...
Prayers for you all.