I've got to vent....
So I go back to work on Monday but I didn't get a paycheck this week because my short term disability was only for 8 weeks. I thought being on salary would cover me working or not and I would have gotten a check. Either way I really wasn't worried about it because my dh was finally working and making good money....
WELLLL....that was until yesterday when he and the boss had it out. So I'm sure the boss fired him but dh said he quit. It's a matter of he said/she said BS.....anyway I agree the boss was a dick and a dope head and let the guys do dope on the job. DH had been telling me all the crap going on since he started and how aggravated he was getting but I nice and politely told him that we needed him to work until he could find something else.....He had just been working for 8 weeks....
So he went and got his tools this morning and that's when I found out that I wasn't getting a paycheck and it all hit me. The more I thought about it the madder I got. When he comes in he sits down and feeds dd and turns the TV on to some Overhaulin show that he likes. I ask him what his plan is and he gets pissy. I told him that this is it....we get his check and another three day check and boom---no more money for a month. He gets pissy and starts putting his shoes on and says I'm going to find a job. I told him everybody has to kiss some a$$ sometime and that feeding dh and ds were more important than his ego. So evidently it isn't to him.....He says NO one is going to talk to him that way....
So am I wrong to be ill in that I'm the only one that has been working steady for the last 1 1/2 years? He's worked a public job maybe 12 weeks in that whole time and the rest he has BS'd around with a shop with a buddy and restoring a car for someone that hasn't brought in hardly any money.
To boot ---at tax season this year the govt took $2200 of mine--I say mine because I was the only one that worked---because of dh and his ex wife tax issues. So evidently they both claimed his oldest son one year and IIIIIIIII had to pick up the bill for that.
I have been stressing myself sick for the last freaking year wondering how all these bills will be paid. I'm not blaming anyone but US because we made them but HE needs to help pay them off. I would like to buy a house one day but that isn't going to happen since my credit is now ruined. Not to mention all the bills now from a month in-patient stay on bedrest and a month NICU bill for our ds....
He really is a good man but I guess he lives in a bubble or something....
Thanks for letting me vent.
So I go back to work on Monday but I didn't get a paycheck this week because my short term disability was only for 8 weeks. I thought being on salary would cover me working or not and I would have gotten a check. Either way I really wasn't worried about it because my dh was finally working and making good money....
WELLLL....that was until yesterday when he and the boss had it out. So I'm sure the boss fired him but dh said he quit. It's a matter of he said/she said BS.....anyway I agree the boss was a dick and a dope head and let the guys do dope on the job. DH had been telling me all the crap going on since he started and how aggravated he was getting but I nice and politely told him that we needed him to work until he could find something else.....He had just been working for 8 weeks....
So he went and got his tools this morning and that's when I found out that I wasn't getting a paycheck and it all hit me. The more I thought about it the madder I got. When he comes in he sits down and feeds dd and turns the TV on to some Overhaulin show that he likes. I ask him what his plan is and he gets pissy. I told him that this is it....we get his check and another three day check and boom---no more money for a month. He gets pissy and starts putting his shoes on and says I'm going to find a job. I told him everybody has to kiss some a$$ sometime and that feeding dh and ds were more important than his ego. So evidently it isn't to him.....He says NO one is going to talk to him that way....
So am I wrong to be ill in that I'm the only one that has been working steady for the last 1 1/2 years? He's worked a public job maybe 12 weeks in that whole time and the rest he has BS'd around with a shop with a buddy and restoring a car for someone that hasn't brought in hardly any money.
To boot ---at tax season this year the govt took $2200 of mine--I say mine because I was the only one that worked---because of dh and his ex wife tax issues. So evidently they both claimed his oldest son one year and IIIIIIIII had to pick up the bill for that.
I have been stressing myself sick for the last freaking year wondering how all these bills will be paid. I'm not blaming anyone but US because we made them but HE needs to help pay them off. I would like to buy a house one day but that isn't going to happen since my credit is now ruined. Not to mention all the bills now from a month in-patient stay on bedrest and a month NICU bill for our ds....
He really is a good man but I guess he lives in a bubble or something....
Thanks for letting me vent.
