, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
back to the you of Sept and
to you now.Karen1968
, thank you very much for your dog story. You are so right about one who has been there for a long time. Somehow it is comforting to me right now to think I might still mistakenly think she's there 3 months from now.
Originally Posted by shy
Then I would like to know why my doctor recommended that I wait 3 cycles?? I asked him directly if it was only for knowing dates accurately and he said that was part of it, but also to make sure uterus was "ready" ... implying that if it wasn't it would increase likelihood of miscarrying again.
, I have heard that women are both more likely to get pg and more likely to m/c in the cycle after the m/c. Also heard that both of those effects aren't strong. The 3 cycles number seems to be what Some People have decided it takes emotionally. After my 1st m/c my mw told me she had plenty of stories of women who got pg the cycle after the m/c and had
healthy babies. She encouraged me to go for it if it felt right--so we did but did not have success and then took a break from TTC for other reasons. After my 2nd m/c I felt completely exhausted and it was clear to me my body needed to recupe. All this is to say, I would follow your wise mama intuition/knowledge of yourself on this one and I send baby dust for whenever the time seems right to you.