Got me a new doc, have printed out all the links and info you wonderful women have provided, and it will be top of my list for discussion with our new doc. i knew in my heart i was right, i KNEW he was wrong, but its scary how close i was to believing him, he was very convincing, and soooo sure of himself.
still thinking of how i will address the other doc, cause i WILL be addressing him.
(and sorry to the OP for hijacking this thread, i should have started my own)