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Originally Posted by Evie's Mama 
I don't have a link to the study, but it was shown that student in Head Start showed no advancement over their peers that went to no program instead by the time they hit 4th grade. So if your reason is to hopefully get your child ahead, I would pick a different program. I was very unimpressed when I studied the curriculum (I'm a licensed teacher).
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No, I am not interested in him getting "ahead" (I mean, if he got ahead that would be great, but not really what I am looking for, kwim?) but I would like to get him used to some kind of school routine- we have never had him in daycare or anything before, when he stays home with daddy, they play, they eat, they take naps.. the world is pretty open ended really (as far as schedule).. I would also like to see him socialize with kids his own age at the same physical development he is at.. I have a 5 year old, but he is pretty severely (imho) delayed in multiple areas (he has been in occupational therapy, speech therapy, and the school district's special ed program for preschoolers- but it was only once a week) and he just can't keep up with him.. My youngest sometimes acts the bully of his brother for this reason, bossing him around, etc..
the only "routines" dp and youngest have really are dropping big brothers off at school and last year they did get to have some fairly regular play dates with a friend of dp's and his grandkids- because I was pushing the issue a bit..
This is my youngest and he has always been a very physical handful. He was walking at 8 months, and doing a jump/somersault off his high chair at 12 months.. he has pulled the curtain rods out of the walls, and likes to hang upside down from the banisters by his knees.. that kind of kid. He is very different from my other kids that way..
So learning a bit of "routine" would be a goal for him, as would practice with scissors, coloring, story time, practicing his letters, gym time (I took him swimming once a week this summer, and he plays independently on his bike pretty much everyday, but the only "team" activities we play is badminton).. those would be the kinds of goals I would have for him.. would his curriculum not cover that stuff? I am a licensed teacher as well- but upper grades. I don't know anything about what I should expect from a preschool curriculum. My mother has a masters in early childhood ed (and is a retired first grade teacher), though, I suppose I should ask her about local curriculum requirements in my state- she probably knows SOMETHING about it.. thanks for the suggestion.
ETA: mainly I am concerned that he might find Kindy difficult next year if I don't get him a little something extra this year, kwim?