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My baby boy had to go to the hospital

post #1 of 20
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I just got home from a 24 hour stay in the hospital with Taliesin.

I had been worried about a few things. At his 3 day check I asked them to test his bili levels again because he seemed to be jaundiced to me. They told me that he wasnt yellow enough to worry about and that if anything changed to let them know. He was nursing like a champ, every 1-3 hours, and was wetting 8 diapers a day. I was still really nervous because he seemed to be getting lighter, even though he was on the breast pretty often (not 24-7 like his sisters were- but very often). He also had brickdust crystals in his diapers every time I changed him (a sign of dehydration)- I had also brought that up with the doc when we went for his 3 day check. Also was a little nervous because he had not pooped since we left the hospital.

Our week after weight in was on Monday. He dropped from birth weight of 6 pounds 13 ounces down to 5 pounds 8 ounces in 10 days. They were very concerned about his coloring and the lack of pooping. So we had his bili level drawn again. He was severely jaundiced and dehydrated and it was causing a failure to thrive. We were sent to our children's hospital. Aprently what I thought was my laid back baby (which I was excited about after having 2 very high needs little ones) was actually a sick baby who was slipping away from me. He was so exausted from being jaundiced and lack of fluids that he could not actually swallow much of the milk. The doctors told me that it was the fact that I am tandum nursing his bigger sister that allowed him to get enough to eat to make it this far safely, and keep my milk supply up.

He had a night under the bili-light and a little extra feeding (1oz formula) after each nursing. I can replace the formula with breastmilk in a bottle as soon as I get enough pumped. We are on scheduled feeds- meaning no longer than 3 hours between and a lot of stopping to rewake the little man. He gained 2 oz in the 12 hours they were tracking him that night!- he really needed the extra fluids.

He is doing much better and we are home now. I hope that with a lot of love (and scheduled feeds) he will start gaining soon.

The process of feeding him takes about an hour to get through. I also cant nurse him while sleeping because I have to keep him awake enough to swallow. I am so never going to get to sleep again...
post #2 of 20
Oh, I am sooo glad your little guy is okay!!! Wishing you a smooth babymoon from this point on!!!
post #3 of 20
What a scary story!! I am so glad to hear your Momma insticts were paying attention and he is doing better now. Sorry about the lack of sleep but once he gets stronger you really will be able to sleep again! My thoughts are with you and your lil man.
post #4 of 20
oh goodness, mama, what an frightening experience, and a big ordeal for you both. i'm so very glad he is home with you, getting better quickly. sending you hugs!
post #5 of 20
awe, i am so sorry you, your little one and your family have had to go through this. I really hope that he continues to get much better.
Thank goodness you were as persistent as you were.
post #6 of 20
well done on following your instincts. I hope he gets better quickly and you get lots of help and support.
post #7 of 20
Ahhh sweetie. It's so hard when they're sick. Rest assured your little man will be all better in no time at all. In the meantime, hang in there and just keep on mothering him. I had to follow that kind of insane-O schedule for 6 months with my third baby while she was in hospital getting chemo...

When you get things back to 'normal', it's going to feel sweeter than you could ever imagine.

Take care.
post #8 of 20
All along your instincts were right! I am so glad that the docs finally caught up with what you knew and that your boy is getting better now.

My doula talks about getting my husband to actually attend to the baby while the baby is at my breast so that I can rest. Maybe that is a possibility for you?
post #9 of 20
I'm so glad you listened to your instincts and all will be well!
Your story is very similar to what happened with dd1 except after going to the doctor and allowing them to xray her for a bowel blockage (I still can't believe I did that!) we went to a LLL leader instead of the hospital and wound up pumping, finger feeding, and breastfeeding around the clock for about a week. The downside was no sleep. The upside is my still chubby 2 1/2 year old. She started gaining and didn't stop until about 7 months! And by then she was almost 20 pounds! She's a healthy 28 pounds now.
We had to wake her to feed her, too. Even with frozen veggies on her bare back in January!

You can do this! Really, you will sleep later! I promise!
post #10 of 20
I am so glad for you that the tandem nursing turned out to be a positive. Your little one is in good hands. Now you know.... now they know.... it will clear up... this too shall pass

(((HUGS)))
post #11 of 20
What a blessing that you are tandem nursing! So glad that he is okay mama, and glad that you listened to your instincts.
post #12 of 20
Oh my how scary! Hopefully he will bounce back very quickly! I'll be thinking of you!
post #13 of 20
Poor mama and poor little guy! I'm glad you went with your gut Mama
post #14 of 20
Hugs, mama!
post #15 of 20
I'm from the Sept 09 DDC but I just wanted to pop in and say how sorry I am for your scare and struggles. My mom had to do scheduled feeding with my brother because he was losing weight too; she took all of his clothes off every feeding--it kept him awake and nursing. Good Luck!
post #16 of 20
Oh my goodness! I'm so glad you pushed and that they finally figured out what was happening.

Hang in there and I hope everything is smooth from here out! (and that your little guy stays laid back even after he's feeling better )
post #17 of 20
I'm so sorry, mama! I'm glad that he's on he road to recovery. Hugs.
post #18 of 20
Thread Starter 
Little Taliesin is doing much better today

Still has not pooped (hopefully soon though...), but no longer has brickdust in his urine. He also has been staying awake longer to just stare at me. I love that.

I am exhausted but doing alright. I am just glad that he seems to be on an upward curve. Hopefully he will just keep getting better. I have been overly emotional about everything, and am having a hard time seeing him devour a bottle so willingly after having trouble even staying awake or swallowing at the breast.

I have been pumping as much as I can- so most of his feeds today were supplemented with breast milk. I am hoping that it only takes a few weeks for him to gain enough and get his strength to the point where we do not need to offer extra, but as long as he is getting better, I will do what I need to.

Thank you so much for the warm thoughts and positive stories. It really helps me to try to remain calm and focused about everything that is going on.
post #19 of 20
Oh, mama, how scary!

I'm glad he is doing better today. I am thinking of you both, hoping you can get some sleep and he continues to mend.

(((HUGS)))
post #20 of 20
I pray he continues to improve and your family can be at peace - and concentrate on enjoying each other! Glad he's doing better.
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