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help...midwife can't find my cervix

post #1 of 13
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is this even possible?????
I am 40+2 and the midwife said she could not find it this am

can anyone tell me...is she on crack or is it possible
I am still not feeling any thing labour like
post #2 of 13
How much did she look for it? It could be tucked back behind your pubis. It's there though. They just don't disappear.
post #3 of 13
It just means its really, really high. It will drop soon.
post #4 of 13
I couldn't find mine til today. I told my midwife (she doesn't do internals) and she said if I can't find it, it's still posterior...and the baby isn't likely to come any time soon.

Hopefully yours will jump forward soon!
post #5 of 13
Oh no! That sounds daunting! I hope it makes an appearance soon
post #6 of 13
Mine was very posterior that my OB asked if I was sure that I wanted her to go ahead and check me because It would be very painful... Of course I was very courious and said sure.

..... It not only hurt me it hurt her too... Ya she had to stand on the step that goes to the table and push as far as she could... this was at 36 weeks btw. And I was a 1 cm inner and outer at that time.

It wasnt easily reached until 39 weeks(which I had been in predomonal labor for 3 weeks and was 5 cm dialated)

With DS1 Mine didnt come down until I was in labor also.
post #7 of 13
I have a posterior cervix that is unreachable usually until I am about 8 cm if you can believe it. It is very painful when they go looking for it. Actually it is what sent me into labor this last time.

post #8 of 13
Thread Starter 
she said the baby's head was low.....i was measuring at 36 wks today
how can the head be low measure a couple of weeks less than last week
and no cervix in sight...

i feel like i have never had ababy b4...this is all over my head...

??????????
post #9 of 13
Thread Starter 
adding...with ds I had an ob and he always found it...used to do weekly checks.....
maybe this little girl is sitting different
i know she is ROT
can't really read the rest
she wrote dipping 36 for my measurement and ux vx rot ballout
(not exactly sure if i read the words in bold right)
post #10 of 13
Well... this isn't the best analogy, but... imagine a balloon (uterus). It's been blown up and the opening to the balloon tied shut (the cervix). Now, inside the balloon is a rubber ball (baby head). You can hold the balloon by the knot and move it around. And you can watch while the ball rolls to the lowest part of the balloon.

So assuming the opening to the balloon is the cervix, and the ball is the baby's head, what could be happening here is that the opening is not the lowest part of the balloon. The balloon is still at a bit of an angle. You can see and feel the ball sitting there at the bottom of the balloon, but the opening is still angled up a bit... so you see the ball but not the opening.

The birth process pulls the opening of the balloon down towards the "floor" while untieing the knot and eventually the ball slides down and out from the now untied and downward pointing opening.

Again apologies for the totally silly analogy, but it's what came to mind!

And it's the same thing that's happening with me... each midwife has had to really push to find the cervix, even though babe's head is engaged and very very obvious. I think it actually is more common to happen after you've had a kiddo since the abs tend to relax a bit and let the uterus tip forward a bit more.
post #11 of 13
Thread Starter 
thanks wombat...and everyone...
i guess my "ballon" has a flimsy case...lol

i thought that my midwife was crazy...and quite possibly not very good at her job

i am scheduled for a u/s and an nst next tues and friday....

the midwife mentioned induction next friday

by my ff charting i am not due until next tues, but they won't listen
post #12 of 13
Wombat I thought that was an awesome analogy! saoirse s mine was very posterior until just recently also. My midwife told me not to worry because for a lot of women it doesn't change until they begin to labor.
post #13 of 13
Mine was posterior until a day or two before I gave birth, I could not reach it.
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