I just had to share my own experience after reading the "you won't get a medal" rant thread. We had a natural waterbirth in a hospital (which we had to fight staff off to get!) for our first and are planning a homebirth for our second. As I consider myself to be a realistic individual, I am continuing my care with my CNM in the hospital/clinic setting whilst seeing my Homebirth CPM as well. I would like to continue to have my labs taken (glucose tolerance, GBS) as this information will help me make the best decisions possible regarding my care. Here are two negative incidences that I have encountered while trying to maintain an open, cohesive culture of care between Hospital(CNM) and Home(CPM) practitioners.
Encounter #1 with the Medical Records Release Lady after I explained why I'd like to have my records released to my CPM: "Well your homebirth midwife better not let you make copies of your medical records or let you see them because she's supposed to charge for that. Your records are the property of the state of **! I'm not even sure I feel comfortable releasing records to a homebirth midwife!" Wow-just wow.
Encounter #2 with my CNM's nursing assistant when I called to let them know my CPM would be accompanying me to my next appointment: "Well, I think that we'll have to terminate our care relationship with you now if you've decided to have a homebirth." Seriously, can they do that?
I just feel like there shouldn't have to be such a divide between the two philosophy's of care and never the two shall meet. What happened to make hospital vs. homebirth enemies?
My husband gave me encouragement recently by telling me that we are pursuing "the correct, most efficient tool for the job." If there is no complication in my pregnancy, there is no need for a surgeon to attend it. If I am going to go to the store 3 blocks away to get a few groceries, a bike or my feet are a better, more efficient tool than a vehicle. If I grow food in the garden and preserve it for use, that is more efficient that buying canned goods from China. This helped to set me at ease...a bit.
Please let me know if any of you mommas out there have felt similar things while trying to have an open discussion between these two practicing birth fields. Stories or perspective much appreciated!
Encounter #1 with the Medical Records Release Lady after I explained why I'd like to have my records released to my CPM: "Well your homebirth midwife better not let you make copies of your medical records or let you see them because she's supposed to charge for that. Your records are the property of the state of **! I'm not even sure I feel comfortable releasing records to a homebirth midwife!" Wow-just wow.
Encounter #2 with my CNM's nursing assistant when I called to let them know my CPM would be accompanying me to my next appointment: "Well, I think that we'll have to terminate our care relationship with you now if you've decided to have a homebirth." Seriously, can they do that?
I just feel like there shouldn't have to be such a divide between the two philosophy's of care and never the two shall meet. What happened to make hospital vs. homebirth enemies?
My husband gave me encouragement recently by telling me that we are pursuing "the correct, most efficient tool for the job." If there is no complication in my pregnancy, there is no need for a surgeon to attend it. If I am going to go to the store 3 blocks away to get a few groceries, a bike or my feet are a better, more efficient tool than a vehicle. If I grow food in the garden and preserve it for use, that is more efficient that buying canned goods from China. This helped to set me at ease...a bit.
Please let me know if any of you mommas out there have felt similar things while trying to have an open discussion between these two practicing birth fields. Stories or perspective much appreciated!







