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post #1 of 82
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Okay so I am not quite 28 weeks yet and have been contracting a lot the last couple of weeks. I know it is normal to contract more with subsequent pregnancies (and I do have a 22 month old) and more with twins as well, but I have been contracting SO much the last two days. My midwife had said I should not have more than 4 in an hour, and if I do, to lay down for an hour and drink plenty of fluids and if they still don't go away...to call. Well, in the last two days there has been times that I have had 4 within like 15 minutes. I've tried the whole laying down thing and they still keep going. Last time this happened I went into labor and delivery just to make sure everything was fine, and when they did the vaginal I was completely closed and thick, and other than that, it was a pain in the butt to go through all their "procedures". Everyone keeps telling me how careful I need to be, but I can't decide if I am not being careful enough or what? With my daughter I contracted quite a bit as well (not as strong as these) from about 20 weeks on, and still did not deliver her until 42 weeks. Am I being paranoid? Or not paranoid enough?
post #2 of 82
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Originally Posted by mom_of_steele View Post
Okay so I am not quite 28 weeks yet and have been contracting a lot the last couple of weeks. I know it is normal to contract more with subsequent pregnancies (and I do have a 22 month old) and more with twins as well, but I have been contracting SO much the last two days. My midwife had said I should not have more than 4 in an hour, and if I do, to lay down for an hour and drink plenty of fluids and if they still don't go away...to call. Well, in the last two days there has been times that I have had 4 within like 15 minutes. I've tried the whole laying down thing and they still keep going. Last time this happened I went into labor and delivery just to make sure everything was fine, and when they did the vaginal I was completely closed and thick, and other than that, it was a pain in the butt to go through all their "procedures". Everyone keeps telling me how careful I need to be, but I can't decide if I am not being careful enough or what? With my daughter I contracted quite a bit as well (not as strong as these) from about 20 weeks on, and still did not deliver her until 42 weeks. Am I being paranoid? Or not paranoid enough?

Ohh, I hate when stuff like this happens on a weekend. Can you call your midwife to get her opinion? I would definately worry if they're not going away and are that frequent. Until they do ease up, or you see someone abuot them, I would definately stay laying down as much as possible and keep on hydrating!
post #3 of 82
When my contractions were out of control my MW had me take a very warm bath and drink half a glass of wine and pound three 32 ounce glasses of water. Obviously, I'm NOT suggesting you do that without talking to someone first. It worked every time and bonus I slept like a rock.

If you aren't having any luck getting them to stop, you do really need to be cautious.
post #4 of 82
What she said! Wine or beer does wonders for stopping contractions. Def do the water and warm bath and resting first but if they're coming as fast as 4 in 15 you really should get a bottle of something. The heat will make many women contract because it's SOOO easy to dehydrate but a Midwife check may also be in order here. You don't want them coming just yet!
post #5 of 82
go get checked out and rest to your maximum ability. you can't rest too much with regular contractions, and you won't regret resting, but you might regret overdoing it and ignoring them. .
post #6 of 82
My doctor told me to check in if I was having 6 contractions per hour. The standard (and lots of online research agreed) tends to be 4 is for singletons and 6 is for twins. Obviously you can ignore that and listen to your doctor, but it does normallize your experience a bit. My instructions were that if I had 6 in one hour, I needed to drink 3 or 4 glasses of water and go lie flat for an hour.

How much water are you getting every day? A minimum of 60 oz is recommended, but it has to be more than that in the heat. I was also pregnant in the summer, and I found that whenever I didn't drink enough I started having conractions. By 28 weeks I also had to slow down a LOT because in the hot weather it just triggered the contractions all the time.
post #7 of 82
And if the babies are having a big growth spurt...oh goodness can it cause lots of contractions! I had them a ton through the whole thing, but they were just toning contractions, and not the real deal until the end.
post #8 of 82
Thread Starter 
...toning contractions? What is that, and how do you know?

Spring Lily: That is so weird because my midwife said that normally for a single baby they want you to lie down and all that if it is more than 6 in an hour, but she said for twins she didn't want me having more than 4 before I started the whole lying down and hydrating thing.

Most of the time I have to stay in my house and not running errands much because the average temp where I live is around 110 or so. But, I keep it at 71 in my house and I usually get at least 64 to 80 oz. of fluid a day. I feel like there are SO many times when I have WAY more than the 4 to 6 contractions, that I figure if I had gone in for every one of those times...I would have gone in a million times by now. I dunno, I mean, my instincts say I'm not in pre-term labor but that I probably just need to rest more (kinda hard when my husband won't be around for another 3 weeks and I am chasing around a 22 month old). My doctor is going to do a transvaginal ultrasound on monday to measure the length of my cervix, then he said if I contract a ton, he won't really be that concerned if my cervix is long. Does anyone have any opinions or experience with having this type of ultrasound?
post #9 of 82
One of the things I did with lot of kids and needing more rest was to lock us all into a bedroom, turn on a movie, and then we vegged for a couple hours while I layed down and pounded water.

At 33 weeks I had to reach out to an online moms support group and ask for help. I was having intense bouts of contractions that were concerning even if they weren't making cervical change. I spent 3 weeks just taking it really easy (not technically BED rest, just rest). People came over and made meals, kept the kids busy, did light cleaning.

You know, I could use that NOW......
post #10 of 82
Thread Starter 
Oh wow...lol, I have a hard time asking for, or accepting help!
post #11 of 82
I do as well, but it was the health and safety of my babies at stake, you know? It was ask now and keep them inside, or ask later when I was trying to pump and get to the NICU with four young children at home, kwim? I had to get over it, and I'm so glad I did. I made some REALLY wonderful friends who all feel a special connection with my babies.
post #12 of 82
IME I would trust my gut and go into L & D to be checked out. I went into labor at 29 weeks and experienced painful contractions at home... went in and they were able to nip it in the bud before it progressed anymore. I was sent home after 3 days(I begged to go home, they would have kept me if I wanted and I do regret going home) on a monitor and anything over 4 contractions per hour would have landed me back in the hospital to keep my babies in. With that, complete bed rest, and a terb pump (meds to slow contractions) I was able to keep my babies in for 12 more days and got the steroid shot to get their lungs going faster.

So basically I think that if the contractions are bugging you enough for your intuition to says something's up, get checked out. I never had braxton hicks during my pg and my contractions were painful immediately, so this is what pushed me to take action and get myself to L & D.

I agree with Intertwined that it is best to ask for help now while you can and pray that you don't have NICU babies like me! That's what I did, but I got both.
post #13 of 82
I feel like I was getting constant contractions my whole 3rd trimester. I remember reading you shouldn't get more than a certain amount in a hour, but I remember it was common for me to get 10-15 in a hour. Everything set them off-sitting down, standing up, walking across the room, reaching up to grab a plate, rolling over, etc. I was plenty hydrated and spent most of my time lounging on the couch, but nothing was stopping them. I carried them to 40 weeks 1 day, and when my midwife checked me at 39 weeks or so, I was barely dilated to a 1. For me, constant contractions was a normal part of my twin pregnancy. It is hard to know what is normal and what is pre-term labor, so I agree it's always best to be on the safe side and call your midwife or doctor. It can be stressful! :
post #14 of 82
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Originally Posted by homebirthing View Post
And if the babies are having a big growth spurt...oh goodness can it cause lots of contractions! I had them a ton through the whole thing, but they were just toning contractions, and not the real deal until the end.
That must be what I was having. I was still nursing my 2 year old and that set off some huge contractions and my midwife said it was helping to tone my uterus for labor. In my case, it was totally normal, but it could be warning signs for someone else.
post #15 of 82
Sounds like me starting at 22 weeks. It freaked me out and my doctor told me on the phone to go to L&D to get checked out for preterm labor. They confirmed that they were "toning" or non-labor contractions and they felt they were nothing to worry about despite the frequency. Since then I have checked with my doctor two more times, and both times he said that they are just braxton-hicks and unrelated to preterm labor.

Having said that, I really hate having them so frequently, so I try to avoid things that bring them on (walking while carrying a bag, for example) and when they come really frequently I lie down for a few hours or all day long until my uterus calms itself.

In short, I would definitely get them thoroughly checked out the first time (or couple of times) you experience them at this frequency, but it will probably turn out to be nothing to worry about. Good luck!
post #16 of 82
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Originally Posted by gemelos View Post
Everything set them off-sitting down, standing up, walking across the room, reaching up to grab a plate, rolling over, etc. I was plenty hydrated and spent most of my time lounging on the couch, but nothing was stopping them.
Holy cow, that is exactly how I feel...pretty much everything I do starts a contraction! Well, I had my doctors appointment yesterday and he said I am a tiny bit thinned (which is normal for twins at this point he said) and there is no dilation. He said all the contracting I was having was actually good for the uterus as long as it is not associated with pre-term labor. He also said that contractions and pre-term labor don't have THAT strong of a correlation unless the contractions are accompanied by any bleeding or spotting, or any other pre-term labor symptoms. So, he is apparently not concerned so I guess I won't be either. It's just so weird cause I have had two other doctors that were so big into the "number" of contractions...and were totally stressing the "lie down if you have more than 4 an hour, and call or go in if they don't go away" thing. But I guess for now all is well, which is good for me!
post #17 of 82
i had no sign of pre term labour other than contractions that kicked off all the time. no show until it was way too late to do anything about it. i think he's talking silly tbh. i had runs of contractions for weeks before labour with my singletons too, but multiples are different. i would say to avoid dtd as well btw, or limit how often, because if everything is triggering them that might well send you over the edge. just my two cents though. i'm a preemie mummy and it will shape my view
post #18 of 82
and how can thinning be ok at 28 weeks!?!?! :
post #19 of 82
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Originally Posted by mom_of_steele View Post
Holy cow, that is exactly how I feel...pretty much everything I do starts a contraction! Well, I had my doctors appointment yesterday and he said I am a tiny bit thinned (which is normal for twins at this point he said) and there is no dilation. He said all the contracting I was having was actually good for the uterus as long as it is not associated with pre-term labor. He also said that contractions and pre-term labor don't have THAT strong of a correlation unless the contractions are accompanied by any bleeding or spotting, or any other pre-term labor symptoms. So, he is apparently not concerned so I guess I won't be either. It's just so weird cause I have had two other doctors that were so big into the "number" of contractions...and were totally stressing the "lie down if you have more than 4 an hour, and call or go in if they don't go away" thing. But I guess for now all is well, which is good for me!
All of this is bizarre and contradictory to my own experience of PTL at 27 weeks and birth at 29. I did not have any pain with my contractions, no spotting, no bleeding, and I really felt just fine other than having regular contractions and then suddenly funnelling, effacing, and beginning to dilate. I'd be uncomfortable with that assessment.
post #20 of 82
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Oh great! Now everybody is scaring me...I was all excited that I was just fine. I don't know anymore, everyone is telling me different things. I mean, I am being seen once a week now, and they will be checking the length of my cervix two more times and then start checking for dilation. I just don't feel like I can lay around on the couch all day. I get so depressed, I have to get out and do stuff. I do lay down and hydrate when I am contracting a lot though.
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