Yeah I think I am going to go to the doc. Maybe a blood test would work, I could give it a shot, didn't think about that. I just FINALLY stopped bleeding about a week ago. Good news though! DP realized how upset I was about the whole thing. He had not realized how bad it hurt me that he was being so insensitive. He is now still kind of scared about and oops but he told me that truly, if I had been pregnant and had the baby that he would probably be pissed for like a month then he would be all, "So what are we going to name it?!" We are also going to be doing a little memorial ceremony for the baby(even though we may not know if it was), and for the baby I terminated before because I have still been having issues with that. When this happened I felt like karma was punishing me, I felt so terrible. He was struggling for a long time wondering if he was ready to be there in the long term because kids scare the crap out of him. But now he is sure without any prodding from me and I feel SOOOO relieved.
So, he is going to be getting me TCOYF and I will be frequenting the charting to avoid thread WOOT!!!! I feel sooooo much better that I don't have to feel like I must rely on birth control methods that may harm me. And I feel even better to know that even if a pregnancy was not planned, he would not feel like it was the end of the world. Thank you mamas, for the input and the hugs.