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Originally Posted by Sailor
I actually don't like the term female circumcision, although I know it's used, so maybe it's just my quirk. It just sounds so mild compared to what is actually being done to these women. I can't even think about the process before the anger takes over.
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While I'm in complete and total agreement that a) the term circumcision should be done away with (for both males and females IMO) and that b) female genital cutting is totally wrong unless consented to by an adult, I just wanted to point out in case you're not aware that the vast majority of FGC victims are subjected to a cutting that's far less radical than the complete removal of the clitoris, labia, etc. and stitching together the remnant labia. Many if not most of them numerically speaking lose their clitoral hoods and perhaps part of their clitorises in a procedure that's far more analogous to infant male circ here.
Which is still not to excuse or condone it. Not at all.
But I do think that male circ gets a pass in this country because it's seen as "not as bad" as the worst types of FGC. And that objecting to the term circumcision as it applies to females (but not males) disguises the very real suffering of boys and men.
Even if you look at the coverage in otherwise very AP-oriented parenting magazines, columns, opinion pieces, etc., you can see that FGC is often treated as something that is always wrong, always harmful, and something to be eradicated by action by Americans (donations, etc. to anti-FGC groups). But male circ is still often viewed as something that is an individual parental choice that is legal and therefore not to be condemned in any blanket statements.
I just think a double standard like this is wrong. Either infant genital cutting is wrong, or it isn't. It doesn't matter about the degree of harm -- the mildest form of FGC takes less tissue than RIC as performed in this country. It doesn't matter if some children suffer more than others. It is a human rights violation, or it is a parental choice that's legit for whatever cultural reasons.
Anyway, I'm not accusing you of having a double standard -- just pointing out why I think that boys/men often lose out when FGC is seen as "more wrong" than MGC.