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post #21 of 24
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Originally Posted by Thalia the Muse View Post
I think it's kinder to cut people some slack if they're uncomfortable. You don't need to chose between feeding your hungry baby or offending your in-laws -- because the baby is totally going to win. But if it's not difficult to go in adjacent room and settle in a comfy chair there, why cause your in-laws discomfort?
I agree with the bold, but not completely with the rest. My FIL and my DH's step dad were both pretty uncomfortable with me nursing (FIL less so because he was around when MIL nursed DH) I cut them some slack by kind of easing them into me nursing around them. At first when I needed to nurse dd and she was young and we were both inexperienced I'd go to another room, but it was an open room with no closed door. Then a few weeks later I'd nurse in a slightly out of the way corner of the room everyone else was in. Then I just nursed in front of them. This was partly by plan, partly because as my confidence grew I grew more comfortable nursing in front of others.
post #22 of 24
another slightly off topic thought- for the first 6 months or so my daughter nursed almost constantly. I decided to do my best to get comfortable nursing in front of people. I didn't want to spend those whole 6 months nursing in a corner.
post #23 of 24
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Originally Posted by laurelg View Post
No, you should not have to go elsewhere for their comfort.

That said, you have every right to go elsewhere for your comfort. While I do not believe breastfeeding is sexual, I do view it as intimate, and it is not something I am willing to let my in-laws "in" on. I also usually taking nursing breaks as an opportunity to get away from them for a few minutes.
You took the words right out of my mouth!!!!!!!!!!!
post #24 of 24
The only person who was ever uncomfortable with me nursing was my FIL and if I was at his house I would go into the bedroom but he was at MY house I fed wherever I felt comfortable because my feeling is if I am at MY house, I am feeding my child wherever, but if I am a guest at someone's house I don't want them uncomfortable. Just my thinking....
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