hi, everybody, sorry to be mia, but we were on a loooong trip for almost three weeks. had a great time, happy to be home!
welcome to the new ladies, and congrats elliesmomma
, thanks for keeping - i completely understand wishing for nausea. after the bfp, the black hole of non-information sucks!dmitrizmom
, how are you doing??? i can't imagine going back to work that soon, especially at those hours! is it negotiable for you and your family? i really hope so for you! i really think if we're (preg women) able, we ought to have a few months to adjust to our new lives and be at home taking care of ourselves and our families, and being taken care of. it might sound idealistic, but unless my financial future will be truly jeopardized by it, that's my goal.afm
, yesterday (wed) we had our FIRST appt w/ our midwives, less than 12 hrs after arriving home from our trip. it was heavenly - they came to our house and we were sooo relaxed, despite wanting to hear the heartbeat very badly! both midwives were very good, saying at 11 weeks, we shouldn't worry if they couldn't find it.... but they did!!!
we are so relieved! i know you can all identify. it was actually really beautiful, hearing my heartbeat, and then the other one on top, so much faster. we cried
it feels good to have weathered the first 11 weeks together quietly, being calm and hoping for the best. and now we're telling