EO's make me flare up so bad I want to cry. I have to use very specific lotions/soaps and avoid anything scented/dyed.
Ironically enough, St. Ives Mineral therapy works great and doesn't cause any flareups for me.
Aveeno body wash is also awesome, I've found that warm water makes it worse for me, I need cool/cold water to soothe. I do a baking soda bath sometimes if it's really itchy. We visited cape cod last summer and the salty water was torture on my skin, it took me about 2 weeks to recover.