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post #1 of 29
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Do you women all know each other from other areas of MDC? I've been around here reading for a while but don't post much so I don't feel like I know anyone except for by your names in the due date list. I'd love to know more about you.

Me? I'm 34, almost 35. My DH is 40 and our son is almost 12. My husband was a single dad when we met and DS was only 4 years old. We live in Nova Scotia, Canada. I guess we're a little bit crunchy. We grow some of our own food in our garden and we try to avoid the use of chemicals we don't need. We built a new home about 2 years ago and we're still getting things set up the way we want it. We have 2 dogs, a cat, 2 goats, 7 ducks and a bunch of chickens. We've been waiting for this baby for over 5 years.
post #2 of 29
Well Alicia, some of us here were in the July 2008 DDC together, and some of us were on the TTC boards together for a long while as well. Some of us don't know any more about each other than you do about us. The purpose of this DDC is to get to know more about each other and have a group of cohorts that know and feel what you are going through at the same time as well based on where we all are in pregnancy. Some very crunchy and some not very much at all. No worries, we all here for support.

I'm Teneal I'll be 31 in a few days, DH is 28, I have a 10yr old DD, he and I have 3 living children together HMB, KAB, and BMB, and our last DD KAB was stillborn at 38 weeks. We live in NC, on very little land in a neighborhood we used to love until it became over populated and without trees :. We are semi crunchy, we grow lots of our own veggies, cloth diapered for about 8 months (I had to work and DH HATED CD'ing) we made all our own baby food, and try to avoid/delay vac's as necessary. We also cosleep for the first year (almost ) and Breast feed or bottle feed breast milk until age 1, and of course introduce homemade foods when their ready. Age and knowledge has made the urge to become more earth friendly more desirable as well. We don't know if this will be our last baby or not, we struggled with infertility after KAB passed away (for 21 months) and figured it would take a miracle to get pregnant again after BMB, but lo and behold here I am. when Bodie was born (sorry BMB) my uterus almost ruptured and we almost didn't make it, so I had an emergency C/S. The doctor could see the tears from the outside of my uterus and was amazed, in her 12 years of practicing medicine she had never seen a uterus PRE rupture, so this time around, for safety of both the baby and me, I have to have a C/S around 36 weeks (as long as his lungs are mature) to prevent over stretching. We were told NOT to have more children, and then they changed their minds as long as we agreed to deliver early. That's it in a nut shell. I'm hoping to be a SAHM in the next year or so when DH graduates with his Engineering degree.
post #3 of 29
I'm Lauren and I'm 23, DH is also 23, and we have a 3.5 year old DD. We live in Carlsbad, California - and all of our family and friends are back home in NJ, so we are kind of lonely out here. I had an amazing labor & delivery with DD and obviously hope for more of the same!
post #4 of 29
I'm Jen/25 years old and my DH is is 26. We live in South Central NH, but I work in Central Massachusetts and all my family lives there, so I do spend muc more time in MA. This will be our first human kiddo, but we have two feline fur babies (Sanibel and Rambo) that have been mama's favorites since day 1. I'm pretty crunchy- We eat about 95% organic, hope to have a homebirth, stay vegan through my pregnancy, bf/ feed EBM, delay solids, cloth diaper, and selectively vax. DH was completely new to the crunchies when he married me so right now we're working on reading books and studies together to get him more comfortable with the idea of a different vax routine and a homebirth.
post #5 of 29
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Tenk, that's a scary story. And I'm so sorry for your lost little one. I'm glad to know a bit more about you though
post #6 of 29
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Jen, my husband was pretty new to the crunchies when we met too. He grew up one Campbell's soup and Kraft Dinner. I grew up so totally different it's hard to believe we have much in common. LOL But we like each other He calls me a hippie but he does rave about the great food I grow and make and how I pay attention to stuff he doesn't think of. He's all for cloth diapering but I'm sure he thinks I'll be the one actually doing it. And he's totally supportive of breastfeeding. I didn't know many women don't do it til I moved out here. I was shocked. Everyone BF where I grew up.
post #7 of 29
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Originally Posted by AliciaP8 View Post
Tenk, that's a scary story. And I'm so sorry for your lost little one. I'm glad to know a bit more about you though
Thanks mama, me too!!

forgot to mention, I'm still breastfeeding!! And I totally did NOT come from a crunchy background, although we did grow our own veggies (my dad lives on a farm) but everything else was pretty mainstream while I was young, like I said we've come into this on our own. LOL
post #8 of 29
nice to meet everyone!

my old due date club did a "mama of the week" thread where everyone got to ask questions of each other. it was pretty fun if anyone is interested in doing that here.

i'm robina, i'm 30 years old, my husband andy is 31, and our daughter wrenna will be 22 months on the 11th. both my husband and i are phd students (me in english/american studies; him in economics) who are halfway through and just starting our dissertations, respectively. i am for all intents and purposes a sahm -- i have a small fellowship that takes me out of the house about 6 or so hours a week; otherwise i'm just at home writing. my husband teaches once a week and is otherwise at home too. we have a lovely schedule where one of us is always home with wren and are co-parents in every sense of the word. i am not looking forward to when both/one of us starts looking for f/t work!

we are very crunchy i guess -- i am "still" breastfeeding, i "still" babywear (i have some real angst about having to use a stroller now that i'll have 2 under three b/c wren has been in a stroller like twice in her whole life ), we haven't vaxed yet though i expect we will do selective after she turns 3 (partially because we travel loads), we do elimination communication with cds as backup, we cosleep, i garden, we homebirth, i know a lot of about herbalism, we're vegetarian, we eat 100% organic and 90% local produce/seasonally, etc etc. i don't think you would imagine me as being crunchy if you saw us though -- i'm tattooed and such.

i am half pakistani and grew up living with a huge extended family in our home in nyc and moving back and forth between the us and pakistan, so that effects my parenting a lot. we are trying to raise wren bilingual as much as possible, though while i am fluent in comprehension i am only conversational in verbal ability (it is hard when not immersed, though i am practically fluent when i'm IN pakistan, funnily enough) so it can be difficult to remember to speak to her in urdu instead of english. luckily we still spend lots of time with my extended family so she gets it there too. we have tons of help and are so lucky. i think access to multi-generational family is really important for kids, if it's at all possible. i live a block away from my parents! she is with them about 8 hours a week while i write.

that's me in a (semi-large) nutshell!
post #9 of 29
Hi everyone,

I'm Beth, I'm 21 and DH is 24. This is our first baby and we are very excited. We are trying to be pretty crunchy, we eat mostly organic food, tried to grow a garden this year (didn't work out so well), are attempting a home birth, cloth diapering, breastfeeding, and selective/delayed vaccines.

The most important thing is a healthy happy baby that we can share our love of God with.

We are also going to try to home school when that time comes!
post #10 of 29

Hiii!

I found out I'm pregnant last night!!! WOOHOO!!!:

I'm 23, DH is 32, we have a 3.5 DD and a 2.5 DS. I was really starting to miss having a tiny one, and nursing, which mine aren't anymore.

I'm very new to MDC, and healthy-ness in general.
I started researching gluten and casein free diets for my son last year and found myself here, reading for hours (and hours).

So I'm very excited to be here, exploring homebirth and trying to do better than I did with the last two! haha
post #11 of 29
I'm Sarah-Michelle.

I know Tenk and apecaut from the July 08 DDC . Still hoping a few more of us join here!

I know DeeGroovy from waaay back in the TTC #1 in our 30s thread original version .

I'm almost 34, DH is 32. We have a 13 month old DD who is amazing :.

Live on a microfarm, with sheep, chickens a couple of alpacas, and a llama; a huge veggie garden and an orchard. Grow and eat most of our own food, including meat. Not veggie...but into ethically raising healthy meat.

Spin my own yarn, knit a ton, garden a ton. I used to adore telemark skiing (until baby...now it might have to wait a bit).

DH is a teacher. I'm an archaeologist. WOHM, but stayed home with DD for 7 months working part time from home.

We bf, coslept til recently, CD, eat organic, had all natural waterbirth...kind of crunchy, but not dogmatic. Mostly though, try to just live happy and healthy and enjoy life.

Look forward to getting to know everyone!
post #12 of 29
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I'm Sarah-Michelle.

I know Tenk and apecaut from the July 08 DDC . Still hoping a few more of us join here!

I know DeeGroovy from waaay back in the TTC #1 in our 30s thread original version .

I'm almost 34, DH is 32. We have a 13 month old DD who is amazing :.

Live on a microfarm, with sheep, chickens a couple of alpacas, and a llama; a huge veggie garden and an orchard. Grow and eat most of our own food, including meat. Not veggie...but into ethically raising healthy meat.

Spin my own yarn, knit a ton, garden a ton. I used to adore telemark skiing (until baby...now it might have to wait a bit).

DH is a teacher. I'm an archaeologist. WOHM, but stayed home with DD for 7 months working part time from home.

We bf, coslept til recently, CD, eat organic, had all natural waterbirth...kind of crunchy, but not dogmatic. Mostly though, try to just live happy and healthy and enjoy life.

Look forward to getting to know everyone!
sarah-michelle, were you in the nov07 ddc for a bit? i feel like i remember you from there. also, your home/life sounds awesome!
post #13 of 29
I was!

My first pregnancy, I was due Thanksgiving 2007. I miscarried at 10 weeks. Wow, nice that you remember . I often think wow, I'd have an almost 2 year old right now...

I'm enjoing the microfarming lifestyle (apart from days where I'm feeding the sheep in the dark in the winter before work and freezing my bum off!).
post #14 of 29
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I was!

My first pregnancy, I was due Thanksgiving 2007. I miscarried at 10 weeks. Wow, nice that you remember . I often think wow, I'd have an almost 2 year old right now...
you will learn i have an almost alarmingly good memory for little things like this. but yes, i remember someone on our ddc saying they thought "fiberlover" = you ate a lot of whole grains lol!
post #15 of 29
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Originally Posted by brooklyn_warbler View Post
you will learn i have an almost alarmingly good memory for little things like this. but yes, i remember someone on our ddc saying they thought "fiberlover" = you ate a lot of whole grains lol!
I remember that too!
post #16 of 29
I'm Amy, and as said previous I know a few others from the July 08 DDC and I'm hoping another mama from the PAL thread will show up soon.

I'm sort of crunchy I guess. Most of the crunchy stuff I do is more because I'm lazy/cheap and it's just what feels right. Hence the cloth dipes, breastfeeding...

I have given birth to three children but only 2 are living. Like tenk I had a dd that was stillborn. For me there was no reason. They say things like cord accident but no one really knows for certain. Anyway, don't mean to drag anyone down. I know it scares people.

I'm happy to be here and hope I get to stay!!!! :::
post #17 of 29
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brooklyn warbler! That's a great idea. A mom of the week thread. Maybe we could start one after the holiday weekend and then a new one each Monday. You could be first!
post #18 of 29
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Fibrelover, I'm a huge advocate of ethically produced meat too. We eat a fair bit of our own meat and I'd like to increase that. Currently we have goat (chevon) and chicken in the freezer. I will add a few ducks in the winter when I need to get rid of the boys. I believe that an animal that is well cared for in life and killed with respect is the best way to consume meat.
post #19 of 29
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apecaut, I'm sorry. It does scare people but ot's your reality too and you shouldn't have to worry about mentioning it. My good friend lost her twins and one of her biggest struggles has been with people acting like they weren't really babies because they never got to "live" Ugh.
post #20 of 29
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Everyone else, it's nice to get to meet you. I'm still totally uncomfortable with beng excited abotu this whole thing. It took so long to happen I can't relax yet but I hope to start feeling a bit more OK with it all and posting and getting to know everyone here.
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