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Originally Posted by organicpapayamama 
I really want a girl super bad since DD was stillborn but I didnt want that to effect what I thought the baby might be. My heart is telling me its a girl but I dont want to get invested in that so I am telling myself it is a boy. So I voted boy.
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I did this as well. After KAB was stillborn in 2006, and it took 21 months to conceive BMB, I knew deep down as early as 6 weeks he was a boy, but I kept saying I thought girl when someone would ask, and it was because we wanted a girl so bad since she passed away, then we found out he was a boy and needed time to adjust even tho I knew all along. In the end we were so thankful for him to just be alive it didn't really matter anymore.
This time, we really want another boy (will be happy with either of course) but feel like she was our "last baby girl" and now we just need boys. Again, happy with a healthy baby for sure though. Good Luck mama!!!