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post #1 of 17
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I got into a discussion with a friend regarding salvation (from a Christian perspective... asking forgiveness, accepting Jesus, etc.).... and she mentioned that some churches believe that salvation is forever. So, the key is that you accepted Jesus into your heart, honestly, at one time in your life. She also mentioned that other denominations believe that salvation can be lost... but she wasn't sure if they believed it was because the person wasn't honest in the first place... or if it was possible to lose it, even if one was a good Christian, but got off track and kept moving further and further away from God.

I'm not sure if this gets into the whole infant baptism vs. baptism as an adult or not. If you think it's relevant, please include it.

What do you think? (It can be your opinion or the opinion of your denomination... or a combo of both)

Thanks
post #2 of 17
There is a disagreement between denominations on this.
Churches like my own believe a person is never so far lost that he cannot repent; and by the same token, is never irrevocably "saved" during his lifetime, because a person can always return to sin, renounce his faith or apostatize during his life. We only consider someone "saved" after they have died. Baptism does not enter into it.
On the other hand, some Protestant denominations believe that a person experiences, or chooses, or is given, salvation at a particular moment in his life, and is saved from that time on. I think (somebody correct me if this is wrong) many of them only baptize a person after he has been "saved," typically as an adult or at least an adolescent.
post #3 of 17
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I got into a discussion with a friend regarding salvation (from a Christian perspective... asking forgiveness, accepting Jesus, etc.).... and she mentioned that some churches believe that salvation is forever. So, the key is that you accepted Jesus into your heart, honestly, at one time in your life. She also mentioned that other denominations believe that salvation can be lost... but she wasn't sure if they believed it was because the person wasn't honest in the first place... or if it was possible to lose it, even if one was a good Christian, but got off track and kept moving further and further away from God.

I'm not sure if this gets into the whole infant baptism vs. baptism as an adult or not. If you think it's relevant, please include it.

What do you think? (It can be your opinion or the opinion of your denomination... or a combo of both)

Thanks
it is a bit of a complex question, but your friend is essentially right. Different churches do see it in the ways she describes. Additionally, many don't really use that terminology at all, which is definatly a post-Reformation way of speaking.

The pre-Reformation way of thinking about it is the best place to start. It's still held by the Orthodox, Catholics, Anglicans, Lutherans, and some others.

According to this, humans all suffer, as a result of the Fall, a kind of limited separation from God. God is perfect, and we are imperfect, and although our natural desire is for God, we cannot seem to work our way to him, or refrain from imperfect behaviors. We have free will to choose God or not, but even sometimes when we want to choose God, we can't live up to what that means.

However, God has also said that he loves his creation and wants it brought back into a kind of unity with him. He does this through his Grace, one aspect of which is the Incarnation, the Word made flesh, who unifies God and creation and bridges the gap between them. (There are huge sections of theology devoted to what that all means.) In this way, God offers salvation for all humankind and even all creation - that is, he saves them.

The caveat to this is that God does not over-ride anyone's free will to compel them to accept salvation. Humans always have the option of choosing not-God. God offers grace for salvation, we choose over time to work with it or not. At the end of our life when we face the final judgement, we will have made our choice, wittingly or unwittingly.

So when you ask members of churches who take this POV if they personally are saved, they often don't know quite how to respond. Also, this POV typically baptists infants, as it sees Baptism as an important way Grace is offered to all people.

Now, after the Reformation, there came an emphasis on justification by faith alone. It was by our faith, our acceptance of God's help through Christ, that we are saved. So a person who really accepts that at a personal level can be said to be saved. God will give him the grace to live out what that means in daily life.

Now, this caused some conundrums. If a person accepts that saving grace through Jesus, shouldn't God give them the grace to continue to live that out? What if they accept it, but continue to be a sinner? Does it mean that they were never saved in the first place, really? Or perhaps they thought they were saved, but they weren't? Or they were saved but now they aren't?

The difficulty in these groups was and is that this acceptance of Gods grace is seen by some as a one-time life changing event, rather than a continual action over time. "If you accept Jesus right now you are assured of his saving grace!"

God of course exists outside of time - so he sees a person's whole life in an instant. So for God, it is clear that a person is saved or accepts his Grace, or they don't. We are in time, and so it can be less clear to us.

There were a few different approaches that became popular and are still used - the ones your friend mentioned. Some groups say that we are once saved always saved, but that we don't know until we have lived our whole lives. This is closest to the traditional position. Some in this group baptize babies, others do not.

Another POV says that if a person appears to accept salvation but then backslides, they never "really" accepted it. This group typically baptized only adults who have accepted salvation through faith. Sometimes they also rebabptize every time a person makes a new commitment after backsliding.

And another POV says that once a person is saved they are saved for good, no matter what their later behavior indicates. The important thing is faith, rather than works, which is what behavior is about. These people normally baptize after the person is saved through faith, but only once.

And in yet another permutation, some Protestant groups denied free-will, and said that God choose to give his Grace and save some, but not others. Those groups also vary in how they describe being saved - some say it is never clear to humans which group any person belongs to, except perhaps once they are dead. These may baptize infants or adults depending on other factors. Others say the "elect" are known to us on earth by some means. Often, these will baptize infants - if God chose them before they were born, and we can discern who's who, why not do it then? Nothing will change.
post #4 of 17
I believe in asking god myself what the answer is because I do not believe that any church is the only way to god.

And for me, my answer is, that "saved" is moment to moment. Its a choice. You either live in a state of Christ Consciousness, or you are separated from god. (Essentially that IS heaven and/or Hell.)
post #5 of 17
From what I have studied from the Bible (after being a Christian for nearly my entire life-from childhood) I believe that the Bible clearly stated, once saved, always saved. Repentance from sins is essential, but salvation, Jesus living inside you, can never be lost. I believe, based upon what I have read, that we are justified by faith; saved by grace.
post #6 of 17
We are Reformed, attending a Orthodox Presbyterian Church, and believe that salvation can not be lost, though there are some whom profess who will fall away because they did not truly believe and manifest their unbelief with their lifestyle. Chapters 17 & 18 of the Westminster Confession would address this issue...

http://www.opc.org/wcf.html
post #7 of 17
Orthodox - "being saved" is a process. a journey we are on our whole lives. Baptism (as well as other sacrements) imparts grace to help us on our journey.This is a short video that says it all very nicely. worth watching. click here for video But since we don't see it as a moment in time or a line that you cross and are either on one side of or the other it can neither be garunteed or lost . its just what we do. it is the meaning of life. to work out our salvation and become transformed by allowing Gods holiness to work in us.


i can't get that link to work to save my life. try copy and paste if it is not working for you.

http://www.orthodoxytoday.org/blog/2...istian-answer/


Protestants fall into several different catagories.....

being saved - often a moment in time. Some do however think it is more of a process. And there is a full range of beliefes of what one must do to attain said salvation. everything from a vague prayer "I am a sinner. you are lord" to actual repentence, stopping sin and showing some definte signs of a changed life. For some reason some denominations (many) feel they are free to and know enough to assure another person of their salvation one way or another. within each of those groups are people who believe once you have said the magic words you can never shake your salvation regardless of how hard you try. others think you can lose it at some point along the way if you sin enough (I am not sure who decided at what point you have sinned enough to be considered back slidden. Many protestants baptize after a person has declared themselves saved. but by no means all. it would seem those who focus more on a moment in time sort of salvation are more likely to baptize adults and those who hold to the older practices of infant baptism are also likely to see salvation as more of a process.

this is why so many protestants focus on children. because they think if they can convince themjust once to pray the prayer they can trap in eternal salvation regardless of what choices they make as an adult or what kind of reality their life becomes.
post #8 of 17
Reformed - 'Once saved always saved'. It ties into predestination and so on. However, we also believe that there are those who appear to be saved, and who possibly even think they're saved - people who may be active in the church, have compelling testimonies, the whole bit - who are not truly saved, and eventually demonstrate this by rejecting Christianity. Paul refers to "working out our salvation with fear and trembling", because while we believe assurance of salvation is possible, deception is also possible. A whole lot of second-generation Christians grow up in the church, more or less believing various tenets and feeling like members of the group without ever having trusted in Christ for salvation.

So it does bug me a bit when people post "deconversion" stories or claim they "used to be Christians" - according to my theology, there's no such animal.
post #9 of 17
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Reformed - 'Once saved always saved'. It ties into predestination and so on. However, we also believe that there are those who appear to be saved, and who possibly even think they're saved - people who may be active in the church, have compelling testimonies, the whole bit - who are not truly saved, and eventually demonstrate this by rejecting Christianity. Paul refers to "working out our salvation with fear and trembling", because while we believe assurance of salvation is possible, deception is also possible. A whole lot of second-generation Christians grow up in the church, more or less believing various tenets and feeling like members of the group without ever having trusted in Christ for salvation.

So it does bug me a bit when people post "deconversion" stories or claim they "used to be Christians" - according to my theology, there's no such animal.
And what Smokering is referring to specifically applies to me. Without too much detail, I was awakened spontaneously to the existence of god in 2002. Started listening to what "he" was telling me, started reading the bible on his command, and started interpreting it on my own, with the guidance of god. Then I found "The church" (Several different denominations) and started realizing that their ideas about christ and mine werent exactly the same and so I tried to conform to their standards but my heart was not in it. I grew far far far away from god and fell into a deep depression.

I left to rediscover that god was within me the whole time, Just like Jesus said.

Now I happily and freely worship with other like minded believers at a Unity Church.

I would be considered to have "fallen away" by most normal churches because you would have to adhere to their salvation standards.
post #10 of 17
I believe that when we accept Christ, we are assured of our salvation.

I also believe that someone who says they're going to heaven, and chooses to live like hell, may find themselves accountable to God for insincerity.

There are certain things that go along with genuine acceptance of Christ. If one will not obey the Lord, and just wants "fire insurance", that doesn't quite match with the Bible's view of salvation.

However, there is something interesting Jesus said. Some will be saved as if pulled from a fire, everything else burned away. Saved by the skin of their teeth, so to say. There is some theological thought that there are levels of reward in heaven (and levels of punishment in hell), and that our behaviour here affects what happens when we go there for eternity.
post #11 of 17
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this is why so many protestants focus on children. because they think if they can convince themjust once to pray the prayer they can trap in eternal salvation regardless of what choices they make as an adult or what kind of reality their life becomes.
I think that is so sad.

My Mennonite friends are seriously against child evangelism.

For me, knowing CHrist is a good thing, so I want my children to have a personal relationship as early as possible. But I totally don't believe praying a formulaic prayer at age 4 is going to cement their eternal future.
post #12 of 17
I was taught that salvation is a journey. Baptism imparted me with grace, but I must journey and strive to live in that Grace. I have walked away from God. Not once, but several times. And only through His Grace could I could home, and I journey everyday to stay in it.
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And for me, my answer is, that "saved" is moment to moment. Its a choice. You either live in a state of Christ Consciousness, or you are separated from god. (Essentially that IS heaven and/or Hell.)
What a great way to put it. I think this is how my church would see it as well.
post #14 of 17
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Thanks so much Mamas.

I learned a lot from all of you. I really loved everybody's explanation... and thanks for sharing it with me. I also really appreciated the link you provided Fruitfulmama, as I grew up Presbyterian and even took a few (only two ) classes at a Reformed seminary.
post #15 of 17
For me it is a one time thing. However, if you are truly saved, you are a new creature and your should produce fruit in your life that reflects that.
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For me it is a one time thing. However, if you are truly saved, you are a new creature and your should produce fruit in your life that reflects that.
Wanted to add: Being saved to me is stating that you know you are a sinner and that you are lost with out the cleaning blood of Christ. If one truly believes that, then they are saved. They will WANT to live a right life and be devoted to God.

You can never force anyone to do it. It is a choice. That includes for children.

I also believe you can deny God. You can choose not to follow God. God will never leave you, but you can decide to leave Him.

Hope that makes sense. I am not sure if I am wording that clearly.
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I believe that when we accept Christ, we are assured of our salvation.

I also believe that someone who says they're going to heaven, and chooses to live like hell, may find themselves accountable to God for insincerity.

There are certain things that go along with genuine acceptance of Christ. If one will not obey the Lord, and just wants "fire insurance", that doesn't quite match with the Bible's view of salvation.

However, there is something interesting Jesus said. Some will be saved as if pulled from a fire, everything else burned away. Saved by the skin of their teeth, so to say. There is some theological thought that there are levels of reward in heaven (and levels of punishment in hell), and that our behaviour here affects what happens when we go there for eternity.
This was what I was kind of trying to say. She did a much better job!
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