It's my first baby and I will be CDing, with my own home sewn All in Ones. I have a few questions since I'm a true beginner and know NO ONE who CDs.
Congratulations on your little one and on CDing!! It's so much fun, you'll love it! I didn't know anyone IRL who CDed either, but did a TON of research online. Just reading message boards is very helpful for solutions to common problems and so on. I found Pinstripes and Polkadots to be a VERY useful website for explaining
basics, particularly their research on
laundry detergents. (That second link is for top-loading machines. There's also one for front-loaders; just follow the first link and you'll find it.)
Question 1: Should I be using cloth wipes too? How much does one normally spend on disposable wipes in a month, say? Is it worth it? What do you think?
This is a personal choice thing. Disposable wipes get expensive and have lots of chemicals in them you may not want to use on your baby everyday. But they ARE convenient! For me, I like to use regular old baby washcloths and a basin of warm water for at-home diaper changes. We use baby wash for poopy or very wet diapers, but otherwise just warm water. My basin is a plastic mixing bowl from the dollar store, cheap and easy to find! But many people use a wipes solution with washcloths instead, or disposable wipes. (We use the sposie wipes when out and about only.) Many people also like a fancier wipe, but I find the washcloths work just fine for my needs. Over two years and still going strong!
Question 2: Anyone use Kushies (or other?) disposable liners? Again, is it worth it? Are they helpful if you can afford it?
Liners are nice when the baby is older and the poops are more solid. I use reusable liners made from strips of fleece. (I cut up fleece scarves from the dollar store -- again, I'm cheap!) They didn't need any sewing and wash up really well with the diapers. I find them worth it because most of the poop gets on THEM instead of the diaper, which is easier to dump in the toilet and then rinse off. Also, there will be less staining on the diapers themselves. But they're not necessary by any means.
Question 3: What is YOUR soaking formula?
I don't soak. We rinse off poopy liners and diapers and wipes right away, but otherwise, everything just goes in the dry pail liner in a kitchen trash can until wash day.
Question 4: Since they are my own homemade diapers, I don't have a recommendation for laundry soap. Do you have one? We generally prefer unscented, but need something affordable. (Also dryer sheets? Yay or Nay?)
The link above should give you all the info. you need for laundry detergents.

Definitely NAY on the dryer sheets or other types of fabric softener. (Personally, I don't use these for any of my laundry because the residue can stay in your machines. Reuseable, chemical-free dryer sheets can be used instead, or dryer balls.)
Any help you can provide is SO MUCH appreciated
Thanks mamas!!
I hope that was helpful! Have fun!!