I'm not real thrilled with them being touched. My husband is awesome about respecting my boundaries.
Honestly, OP, the way you are describing your husband sounds very disturbing. How would you feel if a buddy described the same scenario but instead of breasts it was her anus? "I really don't want my husband playing with my anus but he keeps doing. Sometimes he even starts anal sex and I don't want him to." No really. What your husband is doing is that bad. If you leave your bra on as a discouragement and he takes it off so he can make you lactate that is inappropriate in every way.
I'm sorry it's happening.
