My ex-husband, and I have a very strained relationship that we wouldn't even have it we didn't have L together. He has always been one of those people who have to **GET** you no matter what is going on, must cause trouble for you, and his mother is the same way. Current DH and I have been together for 9.5 years right after my divorce from said EX. Fast forward to now.
He told my DD that my home was like an orphanage, because I'm pregnant again. I sent him a text stating "I'm amazed that you would call my loving home an orphanage when we have children because we love them and can afford to care for them, to L, pretty rude"
He replies back with my HR managers name stating he was told to call her if I sent a text to him again on my company blackberry. Mind you, the HR mgr doesn't live in the same state as me because she's over the entire country and we all work virtually. I have no idea how he got her name and number, and now I feel like they are either A- building a case against me because I filed sexual harrassment charges against my boss, and EX has sent me some pretty vulgar text messages on that phone calling me names (mine are always professional (no cursing etc) and they searched my messages, found the ones from him and called him or B- he is trying to screw my career up AGAIN. Well I'm sure he's succeeded again, I was sick all night with pain as if I had eaten something with Gluten in it (I know I didn't though) and I slept horribly. I am actually worried I'm going to lose my job, I'm the bread winner, DH is in school full time with VA benefits, I have our insurance, etc etc. I just don't even know what to do or say. Obviously we've called an attorney this morning because his instability is creating terrible living environments every other weekend for L, but holy cow. He SUCKS!!!!
Ok, done.......I promise not to get O/T again.........
He told my DD that my home was like an orphanage, because I'm pregnant again. I sent him a text stating "I'm amazed that you would call my loving home an orphanage when we have children because we love them and can afford to care for them, to L, pretty rude"
He replies back with my HR managers name stating he was told to call her if I sent a text to him again on my company blackberry. Mind you, the HR mgr doesn't live in the same state as me because she's over the entire country and we all work virtually. I have no idea how he got her name and number, and now I feel like they are either A- building a case against me because I filed sexual harrassment charges against my boss, and EX has sent me some pretty vulgar text messages on that phone calling me names (mine are always professional (no cursing etc) and they searched my messages, found the ones from him and called him or B- he is trying to screw my career up AGAIN. Well I'm sure he's succeeded again, I was sick all night with pain as if I had eaten something with Gluten in it (I know I didn't though) and I slept horribly. I am actually worried I'm going to lose my job, I'm the bread winner, DH is in school full time with VA benefits, I have our insurance, etc etc. I just don't even know what to do or say. Obviously we've called an attorney this morning because his instability is creating terrible living environments every other weekend for L, but holy cow. He SUCKS!!!!
Ok, done.......I promise not to get O/T again.........
Take gentle care of yourself and breathe deeply through this. 
But if the HR lady ever returns my call, I'll ask her if the number can be blocked. I did find some info regarding our "personal usage" policy in my ethics training yesterday though and I saved it to reference if necessary, we ARE allowed to use it for personal and if they check the history on it, he's the one being rude/vulgar not me in anyway. I'm thinkin I'm good, but we'll see. he's a scum bag really.
