Maybe this is sort of a stupid question, but is the raphe not supposed to look reddish and raised? Or is it supposed to be reddish and raised, but not TOO reddish and raised? How do you know the difference?
I'm asking because the only place that DS ever looks a little irritated is on the underside of his penis, mostly at the base, and on the part of the scrotum that his penis normally covers. I can't honestly tell if the raphe is involved or not because it always looks a bit puffy and red. I figured maybe that was just normal.
These are also the only places I've ever seen anything that looks like smegma. I try to wipe it off at diaper changes, but it's a tough place to "air out" without causing him to pee in his own face.
