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HELP! my house is just too weird!

post #1 of 9
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i can't give things a place. i can't feel good. there are some major remodling-type things that could make a huge difference that we just can't afford right now.

so the house was originally a one bedroom cabin with a small galley kitchen in the back and a living room. then in 65, the owner added on to the house, making a long living room in the front and then a whole huge second story over the new living room AND over the original cabin.

so downstairs we have a long narrow living room with high ceilings, with the stairs going up right in the middle of it. then you walk into the original cabin area of the house, and the ceilings are low and dark and there's NO natural light anywhere.....

so upstairs we have oodles of unused space. these bedrooms are humongous, unnecessarily so. it's so strange to have these huge sleeping areas and cramped dark living areas. we've opened it up downstairs, took out the galley kitchen walls and replaced all the fake wood paneling with sheetrock, but it's just so weird.

i can't be happy with any furniture placement. i constantly move and change things. i can't decide where we should eat. i'm just so frustrated. i can't offer pics right away, and i doubt there's much y'all can wrap your heads around from what i'm saying, but i'm just so frustrated.

the yard/land is a dream come true. it's why we bought this property. now that the weather's getting colder my house fear is in full affect. we heat with wood and can't use the upstairs in the winter because it's too cold up there. i HAVE to make the downstairs more livable.

i've lightened everything, fresh paint, removed old vinyl to the wood floors and removed shag carpeting.

this house is just SO WEIRD. it's like, it's impossible to make it beautiful.

thanks for reading if you've made it this far. i don't know what i hope to accomplish by writing this thread, i'm just feeling hopeless about it right now.....AAAAAAUGHHHHHH
post #2 of 9
okay, i only have a second as i'm heading out the door to my dd's volleyball game, but i just wanted to say......as an interior designer i've never come across a house yet that can't be made beautiful. never.

photos would help A LOT here though.
post #3 of 9
This sounds like it might be a case where you would want (at least in the long term) to move the main living areas upstairs, and sleep downstairs. Would it be difficult to add a woodstove upstairs? And to put an opening or wide doorway between a couple of the bedrooms to make a larger living area? The kitchen is the hardest thing to move without remodeling, and if you move it upstairs you will probably want to make a more direct path to it from wherever your car is parked, for bringing in groceries and taking out trash and generally running in and out of the house--maybe some outside stairs and an upper-level deck?

For the short term, instead of moving the kitchen you could cook and eat the main meals downstairs, and make a "snack station" and place to eat informally upstairs.

If the ceilings in the living room are high enough, you could add a loft at one end, or on one side or other of the stairs, for sleeping on or for hanging out. That would help the room to feel less awkward, I think. (The loft doesn't need to be permanently installed, either.)
post #4 of 9
We need a visual. Then we can truly help you out
post #5 of 9
Thread Starter 
i'll see what i can do about visuals......gimme a week ladies
post #6 of 9
Why can't you use space heaters upstairs in the winter? Do you have electricity?

Can you add windows and/or skylights somehow? Glass brick, even?
post #7 of 9
yeah, please post photos! I've seen some great suggestions on here, I'm sure people can help
post #8 of 9
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Originally Posted by vm9799 View Post
okay, i only have a second as i'm heading out the door to my dd's volleyball game, but i just wanted to say......as an interior designer i've never come across a house yet that can't be made beautiful. never.

photos would help A LOT here though.
Totally what she said It may take some creativity, but you CAN turn weird into funky/cool! I love a good challenge
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Originally Posted by CariOfOz View Post
It may take some creativity, but you CAN turn weird into funky/cool! I love a good challenge
Me too! I actually look for those quirky things when buying a house. I like to have something to work on at all times, lol. Can't wait to see pics!
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