Modest Mamas... How do you start? - Page 2

[lil_earthmomma]

Layer layer layer. I can always adjust my modesty level depending where I'm going (for example, a v-neck (not plunging just regular v neck) shirt might be fine for hanging out with mama's at playgroup, but I'll wear a lacy cami under it for church or visiting my grandparents. I have a million hoodie type shirts that have huge gaping v necks, and I bought them to put over another lshirt. This works great for modest nursing. Most day's I'm in 3 or 4 layers. Cami, t-shirt or long sleeve knit, hoodie or sweater or, for dressier days, cami, tight black or white or brown t-shirt, pretty silky or gauzy or low neck or strappy (you get the point! ) shirt over top. Layering is in style, and looks so pretty imo because you can buy shirts that are stylish and still feel modest in them.

As for skirts, in the winter skirts look so cute with jeans, and the tops these days are really long (at least for me I'm only 5'2''). Also, I sometimes cruise the bathing suit department and find beautiful short wraps for really cheap (out of season) and tie them around my jeans. The effect is cute and funky and I like it!

I also went on a hat buying spree for my birthday!!! I found a sale that offered 3 hats for $15 and bought 6 cute CUTE cute hats! I'm all set for winter head covering.

[chely7425]

I really need to learn how to sew... I might order a few things from online, like a few skirts. Any good websites for cute, fun longer skirts? That don't cost an arm and a leg?

[bagare]

I have been thinking about a modest clothing e-store for quite some time! Maybe the time is right to do something serious about it!

[chely7425]

Originally Posted by bagare

I have been thinking about a modest clothing e-store for quite some time! Maybe the time is right to do something serious about it!

Definitely!! It is so hit or miss finding things that are stylish and cute but modest, I am 24... I want to dress modestly not like my grandmother!!! I have a found a few decent online sites but still spendy... and I don't really know what to get first. Probably a few skirts? I have a lot of tshirts...

[PatienceAndLove]

Originally Posted by chely7425

I really need to learn how to sew... I might order a few things from online, like a few skirts. Any good websites for cute, fun longer skirts? That don't cost an arm and a leg?

check the "cover-ed girls" thread. we have a lot of links for skirts, tunic tops, etc...
there is one shop, but i can't think of the name right now! as soon as i do, i shall post it.

the shop is called newCreation. i have never purchased from them, but i like the look of their items.

[anjanetteopal]

Originally Posted by umsami

You can look stylish and modest... and there are some blogs out there that can help as well. I'm Muslim... so my definition of modest may be more extreme then yours, but I really like Hijab Style.

Loving all of these links! I've transitioned to a modest wardrobe over several years and am finding it much easier lately to come by things I feel comfortable and stylish in since longer tops are in style and skirts are more common. Still drives me crazy trying to find pretty dresses that are covering though!!

[Liquesce]

Originally Posted by PatienceAndLove

the shop is called newCreation. i have never purchased from them, but i like the look of their items.

That tweed skirt I had bought from them is very, very nice.

[PatienceAndLove]

Originally Posted by Liquesce

That tweed skirt I had bought from them is very, very nice.

I remember you saying that. I am saving up some money to place an order.
It is so hard to find nice long skirts where I am. Salvation Army and Goodwill aren't helping me acquire new pieces, either.

[Liquesce]

Originally Posted by PatienceAndLove

I remember you saying that. I am saving up some money to place an order.
It is so hard to find nice long skirts where I am. Salvation Army and Goodwill aren't helping me acquire new pieces, either.

I didn't know I was being repetitive, sorry. The material actually looks a lot like my grandmother's couch fabric. But it's not like that's the fault of the maker ... I mean tweed is tweed, what can ya do.

I've been looking for sewing patterns I like, skirts being so simple and all, but I must admit that I'm finding that pattern makers don't do vanity sizing to be a little depressing. "You mean I'm really WHAT size???"

[PatienceAndLove]

Originally Posted by Liquesce

I didn't know I was being repetitive, sorry. The material actually looks a lot like my grandmother's couch fabric. But it's not like that's the fault of the maker ... I mean tweed is tweed, what can ya do.

I've been looking for sewing patterns I like, skirts being so simple and all, but I must admit that I'm finding that pattern makers don't do vanity sizing to be a little depressing. "You mean I'm really WHAT size???"

You weren't repeating. That was more of a "oh yeah... you did mention that!"
As for vanity sizing... my theory is that if i make it myself, there is no size tag in it for people to know what size it is

[lilyka]

Cardigans are a great way to make t-shirts a nice modest comfortable under layer. they also really in right now. all knids of little top sweaters.

be careful about buying something a size up and thinking it will make it look more modest. first this could make you look dumpy and draw attention to you. secondly when things do not fit properly it could make it lay wrong and actually leave you exposing more (such as sagging neck lines and sleeves or drooping pants - all could leave you exposed while you are none the wiser). if you are buying new stuff anyway find modest stuff that actually fits you well. you will look better feel better and if it is supposed to be covered it will likely stay covered.

Gap and Old navy are where I get most of my skirts. always simple, modest and inexpensive. also styleish. Honestly I never have trouble finding modest skirts. If you are looking to go more towards skirts but don't or can't shop[ it is easy to turn a baggy pair of jeans into a nice, cute modest skirt for just a couple of dollars. Also if you have some jeans a little past their prime (holes in immodest places) these are great because the skirt has a homey look that works well with little patchwork patches etc If you want instructions I can find some for you. I have step by step instructions with pictures on my desk top which is out of commission......

Old navy usually has some longer T-shirts/tank top which work great as layering peices. they cover my big butt. they are generally low cut but I put a top with a more modest neck line but that might be too short on top and let the tank cover the bottom.

Layering is your friend. your really really good friend.

a nice look that is in right now is dresses over jeans. My kids love tyhis style and I am more than happy to let them run with it. especially if they have a dress or skirt that has gotten to short, this is a great way to keep it modest and extend its life.

[Momma Aimee]

i need to go back and read more, but i thought i'd also offer my thread

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...hlight=modesty

(and i link my blog posts about this very topice)

if you had any intrest in seeing some more on teh topice of modesty

[Nickarolaberry]

Since I wear sleeves to my elbows and find it hard to get cute tops with longer sleeves where I live (hot climate) I buy 3/4 sleeve 'shells' that go under other shirts. They fit quite snugly and are quite lightweight and make a great under-piece for shirts with shorter sleeves or dipping necklines. I get mine at www.koshercasual.com.