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Thoughts about the diaper decision

post #1 of 11
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With dd, I tried everything. With this one I'm determined to keep it simple and buy only what we need.

It occurred to me, though, that out of trying everything with dd, there were only a very few things that didn't work (as in, leaked every time no matter what we did)--one brand of pockets and a few brands of covers. (Also, the combo of flats and wool, environmentally friendly as it is, was not a good one for us. One or the other worked fine, just not both at once....)

There were other aspects of the various diapers that I liked or disliked, of course, such as drying time, cost, fit, folding/stuffing time, etc, but 97% of the things we tried, I could have used exclusively if they'd been all that was available. I think all of them probably were better than disposables.

So, when I stress out between prefolds vs. fitteds for everyday diapers--hey, they both work! When I stress out between pockets vs. AIO's for daycare diapers--hey, they both work! I tried all the major brands with dd and almost all of them worked as advertised. Pins, Snappis, trifolding, Velcro, snaps--they all work to keep the diaper on. Cotton, hemp, bamboo, even microfiber all work to absorb the fluids. Nylon, PUL, fleece, and wool all work to keep your clothes dry. Some of them are more aesthetically pleasing than others, but they all do the job.

So I guess my message is if you're like me, cut the stressing a little and just enjoy what you've got.
post #2 of 11
I feel the same. There were very few that didnt work. And I preferred different systems for different reasons at different times. I do get jealous of others who have just one system they love that they use exclusively mostly for the simplicity and how neat and organized their change table must be. But I love all my diapers way too much to get rid of them, especially since as you said: They work!

Im just recently liking fitteds most and have just started prefolds so Im hoping one system will grow on me so as the diapers start to die I can only replace with one thing which works best. I also dream of just going all natural with organic diapers and wool covers....But I have so many non-natural ones I love....ah, what to do?
post #3 of 11
Thanks mama! When I first started, I tried a dozen different kinds of diapers, and ended up with the ones I started with. It is hard just to accept it when you find a good thing
post #4 of 11
Good message

(Just easier said than done )

My original stash was supposed to last through potty training. I've done just about a total rehaul. And ds is only 3 mos old. hehehe.

In my defense, Rumparooz were supposed to be a big part of my stash, and they wicked pee through the tabs onto his pants every single time. And I found one brand that seems like it would be most comfy for ds and *had* to get more of those.
post #5 of 11
I agree there werea handfull of diapers that just did not work for us. Kushies AIOs and proraps covers for example. We also eventually had skin sensitive issues with pockets but really waht I bought worked some things worked better looked cuter was more cost effective or harder easier to come by by little jsut did NOT work. I'm determinded to keep things simple this time around and since I think i already own enough to get though the NB stage I'm jsut focusing on the rest.

Deanna
post #6 of 11
I wish I didn't get caught up in the diaper fever - so much money! Flats or prefolds and some good wool for me!!!
post #7 of 11
When I started cd I used gerber pf pins O plastic pants. then decided I had to have the fancy pockets, guess who is back to pf unbleached indian this time. LOL I could have saved so much money Im def. a pf girl!
post #8 of 11
Yep. Agreed. I used to be really active on DS, and there was so much stress about "fit" and trimness and so on. And people freaking out cause they couldn't score enough of their preferred brand, "the only one that works" for them, or so they'd say.
They're diapers, y'know? They absorb pee and contain poop. Diapers. Not THAT big of a deal.
Don't get me wrong. I had a blast buying and selling and collecting and using them. But I never let it stress me out. What purpose would that serve?

And sometimes I think that if we were ever to have another baby, I'd do nothing but prefolds.
post #9 of 11
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Originally Posted by SubliminalDarkness View Post
And sometimes I think that if we were ever to have another baby, I'd do nothing but prefolds.
I think I would be happier with nothing but prefolds! But then I would probably stress out over covers, and whether other people could change diapers without a long tutorial session, and so forth. I totally agree with you about way too much hype on DS.
post #10 of 11
I wish I hadn't gotten all caught up in it the first time, too! It was fun but definitely not frugal.

I ended up using only PFs with my 2nd, and being thrilled with it. I bought a few new covers b/c we are so hard on them, and that was it. It feels good to go simple
post #11 of 11
I'm so happy to read this! I just ordered my first CDs ever, and after copious amounts of research, I decided to go with prefolds and a couple of Thirsties and a Bummis to start. Cheap and time-tested!
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