The current thread about home buying in MA has made me realise just how many real estate savvy mamas there are on here -- would you guys be willing to give me an opinion too? Because I am worried I am about to anxious myself out of a good opportunity (that would be VERY like me).
My wife and I moved up here to MA July of '08 and rented a two bedroom apartment with the intention of shortly having our first child. We were planning to keep saving up for a downpayment on a home and trying to buy a house in four or five years so we specifically picked an apartment where the second bedroom was big enough for two little ones to share. However, as soon as we moved here, the economy tanked and housing prices plummeted so I am rethinking our intention to wait so long to buy a house. Houses in MA are very expensive and all the foreclosures make it possible for my wife and I to consider houses in some wonderful school districts we wouldn't normally be able to afford.
My quandary is that we don't have anywhere near as much money saved up as I would like. We would need to finance the entire house with no downpayment (we qualify for a state program where that is possible) and would barely be able to cover closing costs. Our rent right now is no problem but what if, despite all my research, we got into a house we couldn't afford? How much of a problem is it that we have so little cash saved? It isn't for lack of frugality; I drive my wife insane with the constant couponing and I have paid off every scrap of our debt except some student loans consolidated at 1.8% -- it's just that my wife makes about 54,000 a year and I am staying home at least until our last baby starts school so, for this area, we are on the lower income end to be considering home ownership and I am terrified that I am nuts to even consider this. I certainly don't know anyone else in this position; almost all of our friends are broke PhD students who already think we're insane for having a baby, let alone considering home ownership.
SO -- how do you know when you're ready to buy a home? Do you think our family might be ready to buy a home? And, do you think, even if we aren't ready, that we should move on account of the market? Or should I just throw in the towel on this whole thing and go up my prozac dose instead because I am way over-thinking this?
My wife and I moved up here to MA July of '08 and rented a two bedroom apartment with the intention of shortly having our first child. We were planning to keep saving up for a downpayment on a home and trying to buy a house in four or five years so we specifically picked an apartment where the second bedroom was big enough for two little ones to share. However, as soon as we moved here, the economy tanked and housing prices plummeted so I am rethinking our intention to wait so long to buy a house. Houses in MA are very expensive and all the foreclosures make it possible for my wife and I to consider houses in some wonderful school districts we wouldn't normally be able to afford.
My quandary is that we don't have anywhere near as much money saved up as I would like. We would need to finance the entire house with no downpayment (we qualify for a state program where that is possible) and would barely be able to cover closing costs. Our rent right now is no problem but what if, despite all my research, we got into a house we couldn't afford? How much of a problem is it that we have so little cash saved? It isn't for lack of frugality; I drive my wife insane with the constant couponing and I have paid off every scrap of our debt except some student loans consolidated at 1.8% -- it's just that my wife makes about 54,000 a year and I am staying home at least until our last baby starts school so, for this area, we are on the lower income end to be considering home ownership and I am terrified that I am nuts to even consider this. I certainly don't know anyone else in this position; almost all of our friends are broke PhD students who already think we're insane for having a baby, let alone considering home ownership.
SO -- how do you know when you're ready to buy a home? Do you think our family might be ready to buy a home? And, do you think, even if we aren't ready, that we should move on account of the market? Or should I just throw in the towel on this whole thing and go up my prozac dose instead because I am way over-thinking this?









A 2br condo might be OK if you could find one for around $100,000. This would be very hard to resell, though.