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post #41 of 45
I think there are many factors that influence pushing and each woman is just so different it's impossible to predict how things will go. That said, here are some generalities I've seen:
*epidurals make pushing last longer because you don't have (or not as much) that sense of I HAVE to push, where your body just takes over and you go along for the ride. Yes, it happens and yes, this happens to unmedicated women too, but over all the chances are higher with an epidural.
*epidurals make pushing take longer because you are limited in movement to assist the baby's descent.
*Epidural make pushing take longer because you are more likely to be getting frequent vaginal exams to find that you are 10 and therefore they encourage you to start pushing (I have had awesome labor nurses that encourage clients to "labor down" and leave them alone until they are feeling pushy or feelings of pressure changes)
*unmedicated births tend to have faster pushing stages due to the reverse of what's listed above: able to feel the desire to push and there fore can tune in on how/where to push more easily, able to move to assist descent and you are more likely to be the one to inform your care provider that you are ready to push than having routine vag exams.

Other things like the position of the baby, the position of the mother, the size of baby and mother all influence the pushing phase.

All that said, my first birth was an unmedicated 7.5 pound posterior baby with a nuchal hand pushing on a birth stool for about 15" from her being high to out. I would rather had a little less intense experience but at least it was over quickly. My second was 9 pounds, posterior, pushed on hands and knees, about 10 minutes all pushing, no real break between contractions. I would rather have like 30" pushing with breaks and slightly less intense. Some women describe pushing as pleasurable and that fascinates me, it was not my experience!
post #42 of 45
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Originally Posted by orangefoot View Post
My fourth child was brow presenting and because of this I consciously didn't add my effort to my body's effort and the pit iyswim. It had taken almost 3 days to get to this point so to be honest feeling that pushing urge was very welcome!

I felt a pop/thud as her head passed my cervix then the next thing I knew my mw was telling me to keep breathing to ease her chin out. Then she slid out. She is 3 now and still tries to put clothes on forehead first!
post #43 of 45
Factors:
  1. Mother's position (e.g. on her back vs. squatting)
  2. Baby's position (e.g. anterior with a tucked head vs. posterior)
  3. Mother-directed vs. coached (i.e. pushing with her body vs. pushing when other's say "it's time")
  4. Epidural, which may make effective pushing difficult
post #44 of 45
It took me two hours to push out DS in my un-medicated hospital birth.

Some factors that made it on the long side: DS had a giant head-- in the 99th percentile!

The ONLY position that was bearable was, funnily enough, lying on my back.

I was exhausted-- had been in labor on and off for 2 days, and had only slept 6 hrs in the past 48.

But *I* decided when to push (well, my body decided, lol), I wasn't coached, just encouraged, didn't have an epidural, and DS was properly positioned (tho not until the pushing stage-- I labored for a long time on my hands and knees because it felt best, and he turned from posterior to anterior).

But, yeah. Not looking forward to that again.
post #45 of 45
I had a natural/unmedicated birth center birth with DS and pushed for all of 15 minutes. There were probably 3 or 4 contractions in that time period and I pushed 2-3 times with each contraction. I had the urge to push and that was that.
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